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Alexender
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31 Mar 2012, 9:43 pm

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Be upfront and honest with him. Tell him that talking about that type of porno (or any kind of porno really) is extremely unacceptable and will alienate him from other people. You would also do well to warn him that if he's looking it up on the Internet, he's putting himself at risk for getting into trouble with the law. That particular type of hentai is in a serious legal gray area, if not outright illegal.


exactly this, it is in a gray area. So its one thing to look at it, but another thing to talk about it all the time...

CrazyCatLord- The keyword that you quoted is obscene. If it is not obscene it is technically okay. And because of that it is a grey area, what is considered obscene? wouldn't some people consider hentai with young children obscene?


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02 Apr 2012, 12:48 pm

Folks, I don't want to sound too conservative or "Bible Belt" on you, but I have a friend who has been through many hours of therapy and lost his marriage because of his addiction to pornography. He once told me that he knew he had a serious problem when he realized that the women he was looking at on his computer screen were less attractive than his wife, and yet he was more interested in the fantasy ideal than in the real thing he was married to.

If someone's interest in porn or even cartoons makes you uncomfortable, you need to be very vocal and very firm with him. Tell him that just like people go to AA meetings to recover from their addiction to alcohol that there are also SA meetings where people go to recover from their sexual addictions.