Aspie husband had crush on 11 yr old girl

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Samual
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27 Sep 2012, 3:38 pm

I'd like to point out that theres a difference between pedophile and sex offender.

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07 Oct 2012, 8:24 am

Summer_Twilight wrote:

Oh come on you guys, there is such a thing as gay marriage now a days. It could have been gay marriage.

If both partners are gay -then why is 'his' partner 'sweet' on a female?

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Okay- lets assume that the op is female - and that this a standard hetero marrieage.

Then - lessay it was a female adult neighbor he was lusting for.
So you got infidelity issues.

Then on top of THAT - the object of his lust is not a grown up but an underage child.

You sure gotta lotta issues here!

Well- dont assume things.
Talk to your husband about it first.

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09 Oct 2012, 1:52 pm

naturalplastic wrote:

Summer_Twilight wrote:

Oh come on you guys, there is such a thing as gay marriage now a days. It could have been gay marriage.

If both partners are gay -then why is 'his' partner 'sweet' on a female?

We have a winner!!
This is a troll. Why hasn't he/she been back to say thank you for all the kick-ass advice we've been giving?

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09 Oct 2012, 1:55 pm

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Help! My husband of 12 years, we have two kids recently admitted that he was "sweet" on my daughter's friend. This girl is surprisingly developed for her age, but still, she is 11! Now 12. I noticed him acting very goofy around her, buying her a b-day gift, etc. He works in a school in the IT Dept. Another concern. Nothing physical has happened, and he hasn't said anything sexual to her, to my knowledge, but I am appalled that he has allowed this infatuation. He just says, "you're just feeling old and unattractive, etc" "We'll do more stuff together."

Can I ask you a question? What's the harm in buying a child a birthday gift, and how does that indicate that he has a crush on her? And what exactly do you mean by "goofy?"

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09 Oct 2012, 2:00 pm

Maerlyn138 wrote:

naturalplastic wrote:

Summer_Twilight wrote:

Oh come on you guys, there is such a thing as gay marriage now a days. It could have been gay marriage.

If both partners are gay -then why is 'his' partner 'sweet' on a female?

We have a winner!!
This is a troll. Why hasn't he/she been back to say thank you for all the kick-ass advice we've been giving?

Damnit, I really need to stop reading only the first post of a thread and responding...

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09 Oct 2012, 3:01 pm

DerStadtschutz wrote:

Maerlyn138 wrote:

naturalplastic wrote:

Summer_Twilight wrote:

Oh come on you guys, there is such a thing as gay marriage now a days. It could have been gay marriage.

If both partners are gay -then why is 'his' partner 'sweet' on a female?

We have a winner!!
This is a troll. Why hasn't he/she been back to say thank you for all the kick-ass advice we've been giving?

Damnit, I really need to stop reading only the first post of a thread and responding...

LOL, ya the 'person' who started this thread has not been back to this site since the day it was posted...obviously not a crisis requiring our educated responses.

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09 Oct 2012, 3:29 pm

On some other boards, the thread probably would have spawned a number of spinoffs that would get crazier and crazier.

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