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20 Sep 2007, 2:48 am

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When I was 18, I wanted to be 25. Now I am 48, I still want to be 25. :lol: I don't feel any different.


So Bazza what is it for you that is so special or magical about age 25? Is it symbolic maybe? Personally I hated it when I was 25. But then again I can't think of any age I have been happy with my age. It always seems I'm never "old enough".



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20 Sep 2007, 6:44 pm

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So Bazza what is it for you that is so special or magical about age 25? Is it symbolic maybe? Personally I hated it when I was 25. But then again I can't think of any age I have been happy with my age. It always seems I'm never "old enough".

don't know. I didn't think you'd ask - lol

25 is past the university/college years and seems old enough to be taken seriously, but young enough your not out of touch with teenagers.

IAt 48, I don't really like the realisation than I have more life behind me than in front of me



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20 Sep 2007, 9:14 pm

I tend to get along with people in their 20s and 30s really well, especially if they're professionals. Typically, they can never believe how wise I am for my age and the fact I look even younger isn't really hurting anything! :wink: I just wish my fellow teens would grow up as well. When I went on the activity bus after school on Wednesday, my friend, Grace, and I probably spent at least half the time rolling our eyes and complaining how immauture everyone else on the bus was being. We couldn't have been more correct, especially when they were yelling swear words out the windows for no apparent reason. :roll:



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20 Sep 2007, 10:07 pm

Sleeping is more productive.



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20 Sep 2007, 11:46 pm

Not on the world's most bumpiest bus! Our driver actually laughs if we fly up in the air and/or scream! She just likes seeing us get tossed around, I think. At least it's fun! Usually on the bus, I try to tune out the others by listening to my iPod. But if I have a friend there, I just talk to them until they get off.



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21 Sep 2007, 12:12 am

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No, I'm not fifty something years old wishing to be younger. I'm actually eighteen. But here's the thing: I'm much more mature than most other eighteen year olds. When people talk to me, they're always quite impressed about how proper, mature, and wise I am compared to everyone else my age. I look younger (about fourteen tops), but I act a lot older. And then when I'm around other eighteen year olds, I always feel so above them due to their immature behavior. So what's going on? Am I missing out on having a lot of fun for my age or am I simply mature is all?


I can relate to this on all levels. When I am around people my age I feel really mature compared to them. People are always surprised at my range of vocabulary compared to others of my age (16).
When I am around adults I seem to feel like I belong more, but only on a superficial level...but it is better than being around mindless teens who want to go out every night and get drunk and take illegal drugs. And no I am not generalising teens, because I am one...I am just saying that SOOOO many teens in my area are doing this.


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21 Sep 2007, 12:20 am

I don't see anyone here that is like me when it comes to this. I can change my maturity level at a whim. It's whatever I choose it to be. Sometimes I conduct myself in a very mature manner which impresses people, and sometimes there is something that convinces me to make the full 180. People who first see me in mature mode are usually shocked at how far the other way I can go. Most people seem to be one or the other, and it throws them off to see someone who can do both.


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21 Sep 2007, 9:26 am

My 2nd grade teacher wrote in a report about me "Odd combination of little girl and little old lady" and I think that is still true of me today. I read that you have to have the mental maturity of 28 to post in this section. That scared me at first, then I figured you were just basically asking people to behave themselves here.

Sometimes I feel like a kid, sometimes I feel like an adult. What's up with that? Is that a part of AS or is something else wrong with me?



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21 Sep 2007, 12:47 pm

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Sometimes I feel like a kid, sometimes I feel like an adult. What's up with that? Is that a part of AS or is something else wrong with me?


Those that act/feel more mature than their age tend to be of a higher intelligence level. Their intelligence allows them to see beyond the petty childishness of their peers.



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21 Sep 2007, 5:13 pm

I only have an average IQ so I guess that explains that : )



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21 Sep 2007, 5:58 pm

Lightning88 wrote:
Usually on the bus, I try to tune out the others by listening to my iPod.


I used to do this, just with the
roar of the conversation.

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But if I have a friend there, I just talk to them until they get off.


Now THAT'S a skill I'd like to master.



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21 Sep 2007, 5:59 pm

ChatBrat wrote:
My 2nd grade teacher wrote in a report about me "Odd combination of little girl and little old lady"


Yeah. Always had that kind of mix
of comments. I've always been a
cranky old man, in many ways,
but also really childish in others.



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11 Oct 2007, 10:05 pm

You are now 18, peers are not about your age, but about your mentality. Some souls are old, some young, but you seem to be timeless. Find people you find interesting, don't be taken advantage of, and absorb all the knowledge you can!!



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12 Oct 2007, 10:14 am

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It will even out as you get older.

Indeed it will, but I personally would not use those as comforting words. I was very disappointed when I found that my body was 'catching up' with my mind (and my peers catching up with me), as if I was missing out an opportunity to continue improving.

I was a 10 year old with a 28 year old intellect and 40 year old attitude, then a 15 year old with a 28 year old intellect and a 40 year old attitude, now a 21 year old with a 28 year old intellect and a 40 year old attitude... it is closing in! I dislike it.


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12 Oct 2007, 6:34 pm

I have always got on best with elderly people and talked mostly to them.
When I was 6 or 7 I used to entertain and ask lots of questions of the elderly in the home my mother's adoptive father was in.
When I was 10/11/12, I would spend my spare time with the old lady who lived down the road. She taught me to play cards, I would watch her making jam and she would sometimes take me to pick fruit and such things. Very odd, I suppose, with hindsight.



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12 Oct 2007, 9:39 pm

I will be 43 next month and I get along best with people of my parents' generation. My mother put a high priority on learning and on general knowledge, and I took those lessons to heart.