The Dino-Aspie Cafe (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky)
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OHOHOH. Tell me about punishment not working according to some of our NT parents? I beg to differ. It seems today's parents have swung in the complete opposite direction. I, too, had a mother with deadly aim. I learned quick to stay on her good side, though I really had to work at it. The moment she gave me and my sister the Eye, we knew exactly what she was thinking. An Aspie not being able to read facial expressions? Perhaps, but I knew my mother's and exactly what she wanted. I had to know for survival. She once swung at me with such force, that when her thumb hit the doorjam (and therefore saved my four year old back end), she not only broke her thumb, she broke the door jam. There was no such thing as depression in our house, and forbid we got upset about anything. This was blue collar discipline. It was either a belt or her shoe or a switch, and we had to go get each, depending on which one she was in the mood for.
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I have the Glare and so do some of the family. When UbbyUbbyUbby had it at a very early age, we assumed it was a family trait. Sometimes I Glare at someone without knowing. One woman didn't speak to me for 6 months because she thought I didn't like her. UbbyUbbyUbby is learning to recognise expressions by looking at photos and role-playing. The other day I was frowning, looking into space. I was thrilled when he asked me why I was frowning. The kids have an advantage because there's an aspie curriculum that teaches that stuff.
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Me.. Merle. I have singing in my ears, sort of a B sharp upward rushing siiiiiiiiiii sound that changes when I do strenuous activity. It's getting louder as I age, too. I also hear my blood beat in my ears, so it isn't that.
I lived WAY up in the coast mountains as a cook for a tree planting crew, and during the day the crew would all be gone and I would cook for them. I was alone for 14 hours a day, camped near the streams I would actually ( I am not kidding, gang) hear faintly a radio station through the sound of the swollen raging stream and my ears. This was Galice Creek and it was so whitewater in the spring thaw you could hear huge boulders crashing underwater as they bounced and rolled down the stream bed.
And after the first two weeks I realized I was hearing "Paint it Black" in the sound of the steam. I ignored it but then there was "Yesterday" plain as day! Then I started hearing COMMERCIALS for Gold Bond medicated powder and I though I had cabin fever! After as while I heard a station ID "KCST Oldies radio" and lots of Rolling Stones songs, old Beatles and some songs I had never heard before. I stayed up there for over three months and it was my constant companion. I found out later there was a real radio station KCST 1250 AM from Florence, OR over on the coast and the new songs were country western. Don't ask, I have no idea! I only know it's what I heard in the constant roar. Probably one of the strangest things I remember happening to me.
Merle
Merle
This isn't as good as having a radio, but.. When I worked in the glass works on the hot end with machines. they were so load with the roar of the glass kiln over head and these monster machines rotating and pressing glass. My job was to get out any hot glass that screwed up before it got to the plunger or press. I wore ear plugs and ear mufflers over them and it still was loud. The machine would talk to me, made me crazy, same thing for hours on end, never changed and the words were never clear. When the "words" changed something was up and I had to go to work before stuff got ruined.
When working in the hand shops (blowing glass by hand) it never talked, it was just a constant roar and I was way to busy to listen for any "words".
I just have always figured I did damage to my ears with noise, however as a kid I got horrible ear aches and I suspected it may have played a role in the constant high pitch I hear now.
This on going discussion as got me wondering though. When last I had my hearing checked I was told I could get a hearing device that emitted a countering noise.
I have a strange story to tell but I won't do it here, even though I'm among my own, it would freak the s**t out of most people. Maybe someday. Just because science hasn't proven certian things, doesn't mean they don't exist. I think sometimes doors open and we get lucky to catch a glimpse of what would be considered just plain wierd, but really isn't at all. But I must say, I would love to hear the rolling of boulders in a stream, what a treat.
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Postpaleo, I am a good editor, dabble in writing children's literature (could have been published but have very low energy so didn"t finish) Also I was a teacher and have recognised talented writers in spite of poor handwriting, spelling. Once sent a shy aboriginal kid to the gifted group whose handwriting and spelling was atrocius but he was brilliant at maths and writing.
I think that it is vital that aspies get their work out there (out where?) so why wait for good spelling? I'd like to help if you like.
Thanks, but I'm an awful long ways from that stage of things. The strange thing to me is, when it comes, it just flows. Lately I discovered a way to get it going even when it really doesn't want to come out at all. I have no disipline either, that takes a goal and I don't like to set them, because I fail so often. My old excuse, well I learned something along the way even if I didn't make the goal, doesn't wash as well as it used to. I do try to improve in small steps. Spell check and I have become better friends now that I can add things to it. I just don't use it that much here. I also know it is a gift I have now, to be able to slow the mind race enough to get something written, but I know it could be gone two days from now. Pretty sure it has come from the current med. Even if it goes back to where ever it came from, that's cool too, it's been fun.
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OK...hopefully I can post without saying something stupid and inadvertently pissing someone off(everyone has a gift,this is mine)
I have noticed increased ringing in my ears in past 5 years.I have a constant very high pitched noise that is worse when things are quit and I am trying to sleep....I ow use a "white noise" machine,which helps a little,ear plugs make it worse.There is also a
"chirping crickets" that is also high pitched but distinguishable from the other tone.
I learned a few years after I got sober.....the ear will normally shut down(how?)when exposed to loud noises?However,it can not do this when you are using alcohol.Is there any science behind this or is it urban myth?
If true....ooops.I use to get very drunk and stand directly infront of the speakers at "rock shows" in bars.I liked to be up close to the stage to be totally lost in the music....there was always a nice opening infront of the speakers(imagine that,others had the common sense not to stand in front of them).I loved feeling the music vibrations coming out on my hands and face and I would dance with the speaker,lost in my own world and happily oblivious to crush of humanity at my back.
I have also posted about the....."hearing music in white noise" phenominon,there were a few others who reported something similar but it didnt seem to common.I often work overnights and it is very quit at times.Then I will begin to hear music,often very annoying elevator type music,occassional,I will hear words but not enough to be able to tell what is being said....I have gone to hunt down the sound(I worked with kids and DD clients and assumed someone had turned on their TV or radio)but everyone appears asleep.This has happened more time then I can count,and I eventually decided it was caused by.....
long term effects of having taken LSD in my wilder days.......After learning about AS,I did a little more investigating.
I found the source for me was the water pipes,furnace.....when close to the object,I would hear it as white noise....from a distance,it became music and whispered words(I wish I knew what they were saying!! !)I still wonder if this isnt an effect of the LSD?One of the things I liked about it was that it intensified a natural inclination to "see" patterns in other things....(wood is always useful for this)....
OK Lau....how does this work into your aspie brain theory.I am intrigued.
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Post Paelo, don't let bad spelling stop the flow. Get the ideas down. You have a different slant on the world that could be lost.
I have never met such interesting people! All of your talents are amazing. The only thing is you don't seem to recognize them. ....maybe you are the next step in the evolution in mankind. I always thought it was the the group mind and telepathy, but maybe I was wrong.
Not quite, nannarob. I was just catching up.
You found "tintinus". My favourite misspeelings of tinnitus are "tintinitis" and "tintinitus" - both of which also get lots of hits on Google (some of which are plain embarrassing, as they appear to be authorative sources).
I can think of quite a few reasons for hearing music and voices in noise. The main one is just that the brain is incredibly good at sorting patterns. It does amazingly well so often, but occasionally finds patterns where there really aren't any, hence the "words" that you can't quite understand.
Detecting radio signals directly in the brain tissue itself? I find this a little unlikely, but I cannot totally dismiss it. No single neuron is going to do it, but a whole swathe of them, stimulated in concert, could be an explanation. I'd then wonder if it wouldn't be directional - i.e. you could tune into a particular transmitter by rotating your head. Unfortunately for the while idea, there's a whole additional problem if the station is FM. With old AM stations, and a radio station that just transmitted a single channel, there's no great obstacle. You could well nigh decode the music by heat variation, if you were near the transmitter.
Who commented on the bones of the inner ear? That made me think of an unconventional idea that I can't recall seeing anywhere else. Again, it would have trouble with FM, but what it there was a fleck of iron embedded in one of those bones. It might constitute a primitive radio receiver, stuck straight onto a very effective amplifier. Somebody (not me) would still have to do some sums to work out exactly how close to the station you'd need to be.
I'm sure for the general tinnitus effect, sometimes it is purely damage/disease in the inner ear. It's a delicate bit of kit. In my case, I've never overexposed to high sound levels and I don't think any of the other obviously clinical causes applies.
I'm pretty sure my tinnitus is entirely brain function. I'm also fairly sure I turn my hearing of it on and off, at will. Reword that. My audio apparatus is unimpaired, it passes signals on to my brain as usual. All (or maybe, almost all) the specialised audio processing is present there. However, I have access, not just to the end result of all that processing, but can also use the raw or partially processed data, mainly under conscious control.
I've just tried this with my positive scotoma. This is going to take more practice, but I think can do that too, at will. Hey! I'm not at all sure if any of this is "useful". (Oh yes! I can have my own psychedelic light show, anytime I like - now I'll have to get the audio to work with it!)
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PS. Problems quoting... the whole of this "BBCode" stuff is absolutely precise about what it will accept. E.g. to put in an html link, with a bit of text, it is [url="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinnitus"]Tinnitus[/url]. Now, as it's as picky as I've said, that failed because I put the URL in quotes. I've done that a few times. Then if you leave the quotes off in [quote=failed]this[/quote], that doesn't work!
PPS. The button along the top are of limited use, as they seem to apply to a variant of this software. I rarely use them, bar for the "Insert URL" and "Insert Image". See my list of stuff that does work.
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oh, it very well might be your synapsis going haywire, but think about it Zanne, there is cell phone and microwave signals, radio and TV signals, wireless internet and police scanners and what have you zipping right through walls, flesh and right through that stirrup, hammer and anvil we sense audio with! I just happened to isolate the reception to pick out what I was hearing up on the mountian, but with you being so sensitive, you might just be hearing all those electronic conversations!
Merle
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Maybe. Something is going on but at least I never think they are real and talking to me! LOL
Sometimes I wonder what my dogs and cats have heard. Their sense of hearing is so much better than ours. I wonder if they hear all of this as well. They hear the bunnies and birds in the yard when I can't. I wonder if they hear the neighbors next door and phone conversations.
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Postpaleo, I am a good editor, dabble in writing children's literature (could have been published but have very low energy so didn"t finish) Also I was a teacher and have recognised talented writers in spite of poor handwriting, spelling. Once sent a shy aboriginal kid to the gifted group whose handwriting and spelling was atrocius but he was brilliant at maths and writing.
I think that it is vital that aspies get their work out there (out where?) so why wait for good spelling? I'd like to help if you like.
Thanks, but I'm an awful long ways from that stage of things. The strange thing to me is, when it comes, it just flows. Lately I discovered a way to get it going even when it really doesn't want to come out at all. I have no disipline either, that takes a goal and I don't like to set them, because I fail so often. My old excuse, well I learned something along the way even if I didn't make the goal, doesn't wash as well as it used to. I do try to improve in small steps. Spell check and I have become better friends now that I can add things to it. I just don't use it that much here. I also know it is a gift I have now, to be able to slow the mind race enough to get something written, but I know it could be gone two days from now. Pretty sure it has come from the current med. Even if it goes back to where ever it came from, that's cool too, it's been fun.
Post,
I never think about what I write. It's always in my head playing like movies. I just pick one and write. I finally did learn how to hit pause, rewind and fast forward. I even found the stop button. When I was young I didn't know how to do that so I wrote constantly, even in class, so I wouldn't miss it. I also rarely slept and I would write all over everything. It is still my favorite thing to do.
Zanne
You found "tintinus". My favourite misspeelings of tinnitus are "tintinitis" and "tintinitus" - both of which also get lots of hits on Google (some of which are plain embarrassing, as they appear to be authorative sources).
I can think of quite a few reasons for hearing music and voices in noise. The main one is just that the brain is incredibly good at sorting patterns. It does amazingly well so often, but occasionally finds patterns where there really aren't any, hence the "words" that you can't quite understand.
Detecting radio signals directly in the brain tissue itself? I find this a little unlikely, but I cannot totally dismiss it. No single neuron is going to do it, but a whole swathe of them, stimulated in concert, could be an explanation. I'd then wonder if it wouldn't be directional - i.e. you could tune into a particular transmitter by rotating your head. Unfortunately for the while idea, there's a whole additional problem if the station is FM. With old AM stations, and a radio station that just transmitted a single channel, there's no great obstacle. You could well nigh decode the music by heat variation, if you were near the transmitter.
Who commented on the bones of the inner ear? That made me think of an unconventional idea that I can't recall seeing anywhere else. Again, it would have trouble with FM, but what it there was a fleck of iron embedded in one of those bones. It might constitute a primitive radio receiver, stuck straight onto a very effective amplifier. Somebody (not me) would still have to do some sums to work out exactly how close to the station you'd need to be.
I'm sure for the general tinnitus effect, sometimes it is purely damage/disease in the inner ear. It's a delicate bit of kit. In my case, I've never overexposed to high sound levels and I don't think any of the other obviously clinical causes applies.
I'm pretty sure my tinnitus is entirely brain function. I'm also fairly sure I turn my hearing of it on and off, at will. Reword that. My audio apparatus is unimpaired, it passes signals on to my brain as usual. All (or maybe, almost all) the specialised audio processing is present there. However, I have access, not just to the end result of all that processing, but can also use the raw or partially processed data, mainly under conscious control.
I've just tried this with my positive scotoma. This is going to take more practice, but I think can do that too, at will. Hey! I'm not at all sure if any of this is "useful". (Oh yes! I can have my own psychedelic light show, anytime I like - now I'll have to get the audio to work with it!)
See, this is why I worry about interventions. There are so many things about ourselves we've learned to enjoy. An NT shrink would shut that down Lau. You shouldn't be playing around in your own head. You should be playing with other children. Hmmmm NOT.
However, I do want to learn to read faces, especially eyes. I wonder if it sticks? If it's been around for awhile, apparently not because the youngsters still complain about the same problems we do. Something has gone amiss it appears. That research needs to be looked at. It's probably a case of NTs trying to teach AS using NT methods. Shrinks and Educators need to hand this over to Neurologists. We can almost all mimic NTs which makes them think everything is fine, but that's not the same as thinking like they do. I have a feeling that's what is happening with the faces.
On the other hand, ubbly recognized the frown. I also know the FROWN when my husband does it. Years of exposure. The FROWN can mean you went into space puppy and now you are late home from work so I was worried to some man was hovering over you and you didn't even notice (you're going to end up raped or killed or both). He worries a lot so he frowns a lot. Figuring out the frown is hard.
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I hate to be a 'joiner', but yes I have tinnitus also. Had it for years. While in Uni I worked in an auto repair shop(part-time), and thought I'd go deaf from the noise. We have an air purifer that makes lovely white noise so I can sleep. If I'm in a perfectly quiet room, it can be distracting. I also hear radio through white noise sometimes. I hear football games ! ! There's been times I couldn't get to sleep, and I'd go prowling through the house checking the radios, and the telly to see if they were still on ! ! I could hear the announcer telling the plays ! !! I've always put it down to my brain getting stuck in overdrive when I'm trying to get some rest. As for the theory of hearing radio waves, check Roger Waters album "Radio KAOS", it's quite amusing. A mini rock opera regarding a Welsh boy in a wheelchair who is sent to live with relatives in Southern California. He hears radio waves, and uses a voice simulator to call a radio DJ.
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I have noticed this propensity to make patterns out of nothing, before. I worked in a cubicle with cloth covered walls and I would see patterns in the random patterns of the weaving and draw them in with pencil. But it was no big deal
how did you KNOW that? When I turned sideways to the creek, I heard it, when I looked at it full on, I couldn't!
as I mentioned, dear one, it was an AM radio station broadcasting from Florence, about 45 miles from Galice as the crow flies, with repeater towers on the mountain tops around that area. This was in 1975 and by no means was it state of the art even back then.
Me, Merle
I was taking prenatal vitamins at the time that were rich in ferrous or non ferrous iron ( I never get those right, that makes sense. and I could and would agree it was just my brain being my brain until I heard the Gold Bond Medicated Powder commercials and the danged radio station ID with call letters!
with your eyes and my ears we could do just that!
Merle
OK cosmiccat, lets do this more sensibly. Out of the 65 dinos, hands up those who DON'T hear at least a background (fairly indescribable) hiss. ALso, have we all heard of the Mosquito ringtone? I can always hear this, but one of my eight players distorts it so badly that it's easy. It may even be the wrong sound, anyway, as the Wikipedia version of it is totally easy to hear (and seems to be nowhere near the top of my hearing range - which I know goes up rather farther than average).
Interesting, that my players should vary so much. Only my VLC media player (http://www.videolan.org/) lets me hear the modulated tones on top of the 17KHz signal. I'm not certain that it's not an artifact. Anyone got the ears, etc, to tell me?
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