I've spent another hour catching up, and now you've gone to bed! You sure can talk!
About the NT/Aspie thing: I think it's a damn shame that you are so handicapped by social blindness especially with those powerful gifts you 've got. Someone should invent a language translator which can translate social language. Come on now, the brains are here - not the one ZM is studying.
I have been trying to moderate my language so as not to annoy you all with my feelings , but as an NT I have great compassion and empathy for the struggles and hardships you have as aspies. To see Serious' avater- a sad little girl- and her incomprehension and how it affected her just didn't seem fair. All that brainpower and yet all that confusion..
(course I often feel incomprehension when communicating with my husband and he has much greater trouble with me)
I know about depression, and my husband was ill 8 years. It is a big strain on a family and a relationship.
This is a wonderful place to be open, isn't it. True, have you been so open on other sites? I bet not. And PP, you were in a cave not so long age.
Even though you have all sorts of relationship problems in RW, you always sort out whatever happens here. Between you you have insight, maturity, compassion, and nurture.
Hope this doesn't sound patronising, or that I am talking down. But hey, I'm NT so what do you expect? I am like a dwarf standing in the way of giants ..in intelligence that is.
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NEVER EVER GIVE UP
I think there must be some chronic learning disability that is so prevalent among NT's that it goes unnoticed by the "experts". Krex