Are Lesbians better than Men?

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Yes they are. And turkey-basters are made just for turkeys.

It's not penis envy; its more like its the status quo and other lesbians expect that of one another. Lesbianism is not about not liking to be penetrated. Its about not finding the male body physically attractive and not wanting to put up with the stupid behavior of men. Its not the penis that is bad dudes; its the jerk attached to it. It's so funny men still define themselves based on their genitalia and not their soul. Sorry if men would act nice and not be abusive mentally and physically to women it would at least keep the Bi girls from crossing over the line to become fulltime Lesbians.

It's just not appealing for the young girls thinking oh yeah when I grow up I will get married. Then I get to pick up after him, be his slave doing his laundry, all the cleaning, have sex when he demands it regardless of my feelings, then have his brats, then put up with being beaten and yelled at when he doesn't get his way and maybe even killed if I try to leave him. Plus you still have to work outside the home too! So all those teen girls that were bi, or closet lesbians no longer go ahead and marry a man anyway because there's absolutely nothing in it for them. The bright side is if you ever do marry a woman these days she probably is really straight unlike marriages in the past.

Anal toys if anything. Just showing a gay guy a picture of something that resembles a vagina is usually enough to turn his stomach. They're very polarized that way.

I have a big soul.

It sounds like lesbianism is a choice.

Perhaps--But one can argue the old nature vs nurture chestnut endlessly. The point here is,as Ticker mentioned, the status quo of society is geared towards the male gender. Nothing to do with hating men, it's simply the de facto system of government.

Unless you get divorced, in which case it's reversed.

The discussion certainly took off since i last dropped by.

The problem is the "multi-layered" standard society we live in. Either men vs women or white vs yellow vs black and so on.

Any "standard" you adopt gives rights to others and makes the "others" that are not mentioned specifically say "what about us".

The so called "lesbian-gay" world is not so bright either. I know someone that after having such relationships for a long time actually "came back" to the "normal" world with a very different opinion on all this, that is to say a newfound tolarance and actually appreciation for what the man-woman relationship has to offer (and i am not talking about kids, for all those out there who decided that is all what it's about).

Might i add that there are MANY couples decide not to have kids.
All i have to say is this.

1. If "normal" is what happens most of the time, then all that other cases are in fact possible and DO happen. The fact that they happen less often, does not make them less "normal".

2. I happen to think that all of us lie between the two poles of being man and woman. It's ok to do anything as long as you can live with it.

3. There is no fundamental difference between men and women as human beings. It is the attempt of any PERSON to differentiate ITself from others. How can you be UNIQUE and not impose upon others the burden of tolerating you own sense of "I am"? The problem with society always being behind and needing adjustments, lies with the fact the it is made up of INDIVIDUALS and they need to fight, for what they believe matters! I don't mind the fighting, even when it gets ugly... if i am wrong... i want people to fight me.

There will be plenty of fights I'm sure but until then just have a tea.

That is just because they are jealous because they know that ars holes with poo in them are disgusting to poke but they don't have any choice.

Last edited by BellaDonna on 18 Jan 2009, 8:29 am, edited 1 time in total.

On point No. 1,

That has not always been the case. During the start of the industrial revolution, many families had the husband and wife, along with the children earning money. It was often a three-income or more household. In the more affluent or agrarian circles, women had other duties. In the case of the affluent, it was helping their husbands maintain business contacts either by socialising around the city and maintaining the home. In the agrarian sense, the women milked the cows and collected the eggs while the men fed the cows and reaped the fields. The women and men were rather equal on the common sense.

WWI and WWII changed that. WWI brought women duties to maintain the home only and when the men returned to work in the Roaring 20's, women were not needed in the factories and they could stay home. The Great Depression and the women maintained their roles from the 20's. That changed when World War II came along and the women were back in the factories. They were pushed out when the men came back and an unprecedented surge of population was had as the women were not working but simply attending their homes. When the 60's came along, the women did not want that anymore and started the 2nd wave feminism.

Point 2,

Maybe, or maybe not. A lot o families have grown further apart and now have the grandparents out of the picture. In the turn of the century, the grandparents were often close by to help take care of the young children. Nowadays, that's not the case. The grandparent is now a treat to visit for the child, not somebody who is looked up to for guidance.

excellent points.

I don't think being a lesbian has ANYTHING to do with men. If someone is a lesbian for the reasons stated above, i urge her to reconsider. I am a man, if you haven't figured it out by now, and i find about 95% of women out there utterly UNattractive, not because they are women. Most women are EXACTLY like men and do the exact same "bad" things as men.

There is a common misconception that women are somehow better than men or that being a "dick" has anything to do with having one. Please stop having double standards for everything. It's ok to be bisexual if you are curious about what it's like, but please don't choose your love parteners based on what's in it for you.

There are many wonderful people out there and it's not all about sex OR love. Be sure you have your OWN standards and way of thinking and make sure they are good enough that you can use them and live by them.