The Dino-Aspie Cafe (for Those 40+... or feeling creaky)

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05 May 2007, 8:25 pm

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My hubby finally saw why I keep saying I think he is AS. He was playing WOW on his computer but the movie was playing where he could see it. He ended up watching the movie (didn't think I knew) and this morning he said,"that guy is me." and he is very right. The movie made me cry because the way Isabelle dealt with him was exactly the way I had to deal with Hubby when I first met him. And our marriage is dysfunctional in the same way but to a lesser degree now. It was quite stormy at first, until we both adjusted.
It was an eye-opener because when you're in the midst of chaos you rarely notice the truth about the situation.


What server is he on? I mean WOW. We have a very small group, that well, are hardly normal. They're probaby NT, but we fit. You can tell him I'm on Lother, he'll know what that means, just look for Kickaxe, horde side, he'll know what that means too. Haven't been on the game too much lately, but swampblossom has explained to the group, she doesn't play, and they worry. That I've seen some other shineys for the moment and had a bit of a rough time with some meds.


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05 May 2007, 8:28 pm

What's happening with your meds, Postie?


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05 May 2007, 8:30 pm

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ZanneMarie was on her way to Oahu last I heard. I wish I was in her suitcase. I haven't been there and with all these Aspie's who hate to travel, it may never happen. They have been told that we are going to Ireland within the next 5 years and they don't have a choice but they all like Irish history ( I used to tell them Irish folktales when they were little) so I think it will be okay.
It is very quiet in here without Zanne. I wonder if she took Coffee Dude with her. :lol:


I swear you're going to think I'm stalking you, I'm not honest. It hasn't always been hard for me to travle and done more then a little. Never say never. Where there is a will, there is a way and all that other happy horse s**t. But it's true.


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05 May 2007, 8:42 pm

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What's happening with your meds, Postie?


I was speaking more in a long term fashion. I'm better now. It wasn't too long ago, just a simple move of 25mg had me on the brink of blowing my brains out. Glutton for punishment that I am, I forced myself with nails in the desk to stay there till I was certain it wouldn't move to a better spot. It did not. We dropped it, or I dropped it to be exact, to a previous level that had been the very best. It wasn't the same that I had remembered. I get talked into the bull s**t of leaving a dose too soon, before i can feel the flow of it. Anyway, before I ramble too much further, the nice level of before isn't where I need to be and will put the dose up another 25mg, in a short while. Thats just a simple 25mg from the level of needing to blow my brains out. yeah even that dose scared me and that suicide thing floats by every now and again, not like the first time I've seen it. Can be tricky stuff these meds.

Over all this is close to being stable, hate that word, very misleading, I've ever been in my life. Some other forces at work and I now feel it's time to deal with them. I feel better able to look at them, sort out the bad ones, keep the good ones.


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05 May 2007, 9:06 pm

25 mg of what? I want to stay away from that one. I'm close to blowing my brains out anyway. :wink:


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05 May 2007, 9:13 pm

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Oh, Coffee Dude is gone. We need Cabana Boy to take his place.

Who wants to be our Cabana Boy?


Can Han Solo? PLLEEAASSE? That way when I go hide out in the kitchen I can look at something nice? :)



I'm sorry to hear that you are having med trouble :( . I know what it is to have that awful dark abyss feeling. I know you're not stalking me but if stalking helps feel free. I would think stalking me would be boring but :wink:



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05 May 2007, 9:24 pm

Hubby knew what I was talking about and said he would keep that in mind. He plays on way to many. Apparently he can't stay focused on just one. :? He says the main ones are "Supremo" on Executus, horde side, "Karagen" on Mannaroth, alliance, and "Nyhm"on Korialstrasz, alliance. Does that make sense. My sons all play, too. Believe it or not it has been very good for their social skills. T2 is 13 and he leads some of the time. Hubby says T2 is extremely official and professional. And T2 is the first to tell people he knows the difference between a game and real life.



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05 May 2007, 9:34 pm

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Over all this is close to being stable, hate that word, very misleading, I've ever been in my life. Some other forces at work and I now feel it's time to deal with them. I feel better able to look at them, sort out the bad ones, keep the good ones.


What other forces are at work here, Postie?

Blessed, you have to share Solo with ME! :D


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05 May 2007, 9:44 pm

Yes, of course I'll share! :wink: I share Hubby with my friends all the time. (Of course, it is only for mowing lawns and such.) :lol:
Have you checked out the Ex -Dino Aspie cafe? I love just listening to them talk. I miss the witty comments and philosophy from them. I don't always GET what they are talking about but it is comforting in a strange way.

I want to post a picture. How do I do that? Do I need to put them in an on-line album first? Hubby can't see why I would want to do something so frivolous so he won't tell me.



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05 May 2007, 9:47 pm

Huh, I thought we were in the Dino Aspie Cafe? There is an Ex cafe? God, I'm clueless...

Copy the url of the picture and paste into the window that pops up when you hit the 4th button on top of the reply screen. It is left of the "G" button.


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05 May 2007, 9:58 pm

Sorry I had to remove the picture. It was too big!

This is the closest thing to a lake here. It is the Old Man River. Pathetic, isn't it? :(



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05 May 2007, 9:59 pm

OK!! :oops: I think I need to work on sizing now!



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05 May 2007, 10:00 pm

I live on the River too! Are those your girls? So cute!! !


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05 May 2007, 10:04 pm

The smaller one is. The other is a niece. We spend a lot of time at the river bottom here. I love nature and taught all my kids about the local herbs and their uses. The longest train bridge in the world is also down there.



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05 May 2007, 10:17 pm

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Hubby knew what I was talking about and said he would keep that in mind. He plays on way to many. Apparently he can't stay focused on just one. :? He says the main ones are "Supremo" on Executus, horde side, "Karagen" on Mannaroth, alliance, and "Nyhm"on Korialstrasz, alliance. Does that make sense. My sons all play, too. Believe it or not it has been very good for their social skills. T2 is 13 and he leads some of the time. Hubby says T2 is extremely official and professional. And T2 is the first to tell people he knows the difference between a game and real life.


Lol, I know about "alts" that's game slang for more then one charactor. Yeah, i find that world, espcialy WOW to be very healthy, can be addicting as well, it allows me to take on roles. I don't role play in the true sense of the word, in that world. It just allows me more freedom. never been able to play a female charactor, but am trying now, and man am I hot 8O Gives you, not that this is new to me, a little glimpse of what it must be like to be hit upon. Obnoxious little s**ts. Guess it doesn't take them to long, with me, to get the picture correct in their little brains.

OMFG!! They said the "A" word, alliance. Kickaxe may be forced to kill them now. They won't see Kick first, but they'll meet his little pet, Peaches. She eats alliance for snacks, saves the main course of bigger badder things for later. yeah the alliance used to think Peaches was funny, they do not anymore. I hate Night Elves. Gnomes is ok, they taste good, for they are filled with pie and are fun to punt.


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05 May 2007, 10:22 pm

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25 mg of what? I want to stay away from that one. I'm close to blowing my brains out anyway. :wink:


I've given the name out before, but won't in this setting. What works very well for one, might not be so good for another. To be given a med name is good, but shouldn't be taken as the worlds answer. "you're looking marvelous darling, simpley maaarvolous"


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