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17 May 2007, 3:07 pm

Hadn't touched base with my online gaming partner in a while. Had a long talk with her through messenger last night. I've wondered how we fit together so well, for a long time. I mean we've been gaming partners for I don't recall how many years. When I hit the AS spectrum I kind of wondered if we weren't relating in that way. I have seen more then a few traces of it, hard because she's not real open about all in her life. She opened up more last night. I pushed a little to try the online test a while back. She admited last night she cheated. Some people are afraid of labels I guess, not that it would make her any different. Don't even know for sure if she is AS, but she sure as hell ain't normal, lol. But some how she fears a label. I would still love her anyways.


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17 May 2007, 3:34 pm

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OOOOOOhhhhh Zanne, definitely go see Rog ! !! One of my faves ! !! Last time I saw him he mixed in old Floyd with his new stuff. Great Music ! !!


The second half of the show is all of Dark Side of the Moon.


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17 May 2007, 3:38 pm

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Seriously ?? The answer is not much. My half brother died, and I didn't cry. My nephew has been diagnosed as having epilepsy, and I haven't cried. I don't remember being moved to tears since the clean up after that hurricane in New Orleans. When I heard about those elderly people who died after the staff deserted them, I cried like a baby. I love music, but it doesn't move me to tears. ~Not all that sensitive, I guess ~


Dh gets very frustrated with me because I don't cry at movies, over books or over music. I didn't cry when we went to the Holocaust Museum after it first opened. He really broke down and that distressed me. I didn't cry when his mom died although I was very close to her. The fact is that I only cry over him and my pets. I didn't even cry over my dad or my aunt, but I did go into a profound funk for about a year.


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17 May 2007, 3:41 pm

OOOoooooooohhhhh Zanne, DSOTM ??? LIVE ??? You HAVE got to go, we'll be waiting here for your 'review' of the concert ! !!


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17 May 2007, 3:56 pm

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Dh gets very frustrated with me because I don't cry at movies, over books or over music.


I have had the opposite happen, a fair amount. I find myself laughing out loud at something, only to notice not another soul in the theater is. Well, used to be a once in a while, don't do theaters anymore, I wait for it on CD.


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17 May 2007, 6:34 pm

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ZanneMarie wrote:
Dh gets very frustrated with me because I don't cry at movies, over books or over music.


I have had the opposite happen, a fair amount. I find myself laughing out loud at something, only to notice not another soul in the theater is. Well, used to be a once in a while, don't do theaters anymore, I wait for it on CD.


Thats why I took Thursdays off, so I could go to the 11:30 early matinee at our local theater. I love being the only one in the theater, having the movie play for only me. Laughing or spacing or what ever in that huge dark room with a whole other life in light projected on the wall!
Also my laughter in odd or inappropriate places is not even noticed by ME! LOL So I don't turn heads, that is always potentially embarassing.

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17 May 2007, 7:11 pm

I love watching movies alone and I do the same thing! Have you ever had some idiot come in and sit next to you? People do that to me and I get up and move. It's so annoying. I don't like anything spoiling the movie for me. I only go in a big theatre if I want to absorb it.

I laugh inappropriately as well. I remember seeing Sleeping with the Enemy with a friend of mine in Orlando. I laughed so hard at that husband until he would hit her, then I'd get mad. Of course I would end up laughing again. I laughed the hardest at the end. He was exactly like dh minus the violence. When she saw those towels and they were all straightened I just laughed and laughed. Then she went to the cupboards and I knew what she would find. But the funniest thing was at the end when she killed him and he fell over. He had on the same exact shoes that dh had at the time! LOL It was so funny. I went home and told him they made a movie about him. He did NOT find that movie at all humorous. I still laugh when I see it. I'm like, "Honey! You're on!" I get the frown and "That's not funny!"


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17 May 2007, 7:46 pm

I dunno, Zanne, I thought it was funny...

'Course, I also am the one that laughs at the line Julia Roberts speaks into the phone, while holding her abuser at bay with a revolver...

"Operator, please get me the police. I just shot an intruder."

Then comes the BLAM!!, and I laugh and laugh... yes, I'm sick, so what? :)

Go see Roger for me. I'm saddened by the fact that I can never go see Roger Waters, or the rest of Pink Floyd, or Rush, or any of my favorite bands, because a lot of their fans like to - er - inhale some Mother Nature, and the smoke gives me a fierce headache, then (if I ignore the headache) makes my lungs seize up. :(


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17 May 2007, 8:01 pm

ZanneMarie wrote:
I love watching movies alone and I do the same thing! Have you ever had some idiot come in and sit next to you? People do that to me and I get up and move. It's so annoying. I don't like anything spoiling the movie for me. I only go in a big theatre if I want to absorb it.

I laugh inappropriately as well. I remember seeing Sleeping with the Enemy with a friend of mine in Orlando. I laughed so hard at that husband until he would hit her, then I'd get mad. Of course I would end up laughing again. I laughed the hardest at the end. He was exactly like dh minus the violence. When she saw those towels and they were all straightened I just laughed and laughed. Then she went to the cupboards and I knew what she would find. But the funniest thing was at the end when she killed him and he fell over. He had on the same exact shoes that dh had at the time! LOL It was so funny. I went home and told him they made a movie about him. He did NOT find that movie at all humorous. I still laugh when I see it. I'm like, "Honey! You're on!" I get the frown and "That's not funny!"


It's so cool to find others with my same sense of humor! I read the book, sleeping With the Enemy, and one thing that made me laugh, was when the woman has escaped from her husband and is talking to the little old lady on the bus. The old lady is telling horror stories about marriage. When asked how come she doesn't marry again, the old lady replies, "Why put beans up your nose twice?"

Another thing that I found funny, was in the movie, "Walkabout." Has anyone seen it? At the beginning a man takes his two kids on a picnic. He decides to kill himself, and his kids. He goes over to the car, and starts asking his daughter to join him. She fears that something is up and won't go. Then, the father says something like, "Get over here. And bring him with you!"
For some reason, this cracks me up every time.

And yes, Zanne Marie, I have had some idiot come in and sit next to me in a nearly empty movie theater. Worse, they want to talk! I move away from them, too.


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17 May 2007, 9:06 pm

What is with that Hartz? I always ask, "Do I look like I'm lonely?" I just don't understand. It ruins the whole experience. If I wanted someone there, I'd invite dh.


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17 May 2007, 11:40 pm

I think that a lot of NT's project their wants and needs onto others. These people probably figure that since they would feel lonely if in the middle of a big movie theater, so would we. It just doesn't occur to them that we find that to be heavenly! I've also had that happen in a restaurant. I had recently separated from my husband, and decided to take myself out to a fancy restaurant - with my infant. I sat in a booth, and placed her on the seat next to me. She slept the whole time, while I ate. Well, at least two men tried to approach me and ask if they could join me. I would just shake my head, and adjust the baby blanket. The look on their faces when they realized that I had a baby with me was very, very funny. Did they think I was going to ask for child support?


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18 May 2007, 8:44 am

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I think that a lot of NT's project their wants and needs onto others. These people probably figure that since they would feel lonely if in the middle of a big movie theater, so would we. It just doesn't occur to them that we find that to be heavenly! I've also had that happen in a restaurant.


perfect strangers (and only strangers are perfect!) will sit close to each other in a restaurant with the rest of the place empty. They need the herd thing I guess. Another thing is in the rare time I might be actually LATE for something, they are expecting some sort of explanation. An apology with out an explanation is not 'sincere' some how. "Where you stuck in traffic?" no, "Did you oversleep?" no, "Did the alarm not go off?" no. After a while I caught on and just always have the most inane reason "Oh, I stopped to help a someone with a flat tire" or "We were cleaning up some spilt coffee in the break room" and sit down - everyone's curiosity and concern releived and the spotlight is off of me!

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18 May 2007, 9:13 am

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perfect strangers (and only strangers are perfect!) will sit close to each other in a restaurant with the rest of the place empty. They need the herd thing I guess. Merle


It's the same in parking lots. No matter how many free spaces there are, even closer to the door of the building, there's always someone has to park right next to you.


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18 May 2007, 9:51 am

"Just call me Igor." ROFL I had forgotten about that. Dh used to say that to me in this really funny voice. That's from Young Frankenstein, isn't it? I know he picked that up from some movie or something.


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18 May 2007, 11:24 am

"Damn your eyes ! !!"

"Too late."


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18 May 2007, 12:23 pm

LOL


It's said that Mary Shelley wrote Frankenstein right after she lost a baby. I think she'd had many miscarraiges and she had a dream that inspired Frankenstein (that and some opium). Anne Rice has said that Interview with a Vampire was inspired by the death of her young daughter. It's funny how they both wanted to believe in eternity, but ultimately thought it would create monsters.


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