Danielismyname wrote:
aylissa,
The only ad hominem “attacks” that I see is from you (which I don’t mind at all); I can speak for myself…and I’m just interested in knowing why people wish to run away from those who’re harassing them, I mean, it’s gotten me nowhere and I’d like to offer advice to people that’s helped me before; you don’t have to listen to it, you don't have to like it but you can at least cease throwing the same ad hominem attacks that you are accusing me of (which I'm not partaking in), because these same “attacks” is what causes harassment in the first place. It’s a never ending cycle that if you don't break it it'll continue forever. You can easily say, 'Daniel, I wish to continue running from what I fear, it is just too much for me now,' and I'll understand fully.
This forum is about conversations with depth, and if no one counters another person's conversation how can there be any depth to the conversation? Rather, it'll just be a lot of head nodding....
Excuse me, but perhaps we're from different planets. I fail to see how I "attacked" anybody and therefore object to your calling me out on that. Perhaps you can go back and quote my attacks?
Why should you care what other people decide to do? It reminds me of men arguing about right to life issues - it's my body and my choice, just as it's my decision to read or ignore certain posts. I do not get where you and others on this board get off thinking that you are the moral voice of reason and get to decide what's right for everybody. Bully for you that your experience is that you'd rather face your demons, I'm guessing I"m several decades older than you and have slain enough demons for several lifetimes, and don't like it when I find them here (which there are, as we all know. WP members include psychopaths, sociopaths, stalkers, misogynists, etc.) Why is it impossible for some of you to imagine that not everybody wants to read their posts?
This whole thing is ridiculous. Just live and let live. Let me block whom I want, and I'll let you choose to not block.
I'm also again requesting that this information be stickied somewhere for when people feel they need it.
You never know: you might find yourself being stalked or harassed one day.