Do you ever feel like certain people continue to punish you?

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I was doing some serious thinking tonight about having Asperger's Syndrome and being rejected by certain people who were mad at you in the past. It seems no matter how much you succeed in your life, they still find it in their hearts to brush you to the side because you have some behavior or manner that continues to turn them off. Meanwhile, everyone else seems to be accepted.

EG- I was thinking about a situation tonight where I have certain family members, who although mean well, seem to pick you apart for absolutely everything if you do something wrong. Anyway, there was even a time where I thought we would forgive each other and start over fresh. However, they made some poor choices that really bothered me and so I spoke my mind a few years ago. This then led me to be blocked by two of these members on FB without bothering me talk to me. It was not like I stole anything or did beat them up.

Meanwhile, they seem to be more accepting of my sibling who makes one bad choice after another. I don't get it.

Do you ever feel like a certain behavior is expected out of you because of having a disorder?

People who make bad choices tend to prefer the company of others who also make bad choices. Also, they resent having their bad choices pointed out to them, and will turn on those who try to steer them onto a better path.

Don't take their bad attitude personally. They are the ones with a real problem. Just forget about them and move on with your life. If they ever reform, and want back in your life, then you can get back together with them. Until then, you are better off without their bad vibes in your life.

I hold no grudges against them for their choices. However, it was just on my mind tonight as I have been a little fragile lately.

Simple as that

Lol, that is very true.