Feels so good

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The simplest things in life sometimes feel just so damn good. There is a bar across the street from my apartment complex which usually attracts an older, mellow crowd. There is no loud music and screaming and the place doesn't feel claustrophobic so I like going there. Plus the people are nice and not judgmental because everyone is there to partake in the simple life. It was just oh so relaxing to drink some Oktoberfest beer, listen to the soft music, and just space out. Especially after last week's major meltdown, it felt good to feel that slow beer buzz entering my system. The sensation of tension leaving the body was absolutely priceless.

I know what you mean. I don't go to bars or don't drink beer but I sometimes enjoy a relaxing moment in a cafe, just sitting and having a slice of cake and coffee. There are some cozy cafes where I can do that. I always look forward to going to one of those cafes, especially on Friday. Yes, it's so true that the feeling of tension leaving the body is absolutely priceless.

I used to go to neighborhood pubs to unwind after a tough week. Most others were there for the same reason. Looking back there were a couple of guys who were regulars who were probably medium or medium or medium-high level Autistics. Narrow focused interests, used the same expressions all the time.

I wish that there were someplace, anywhere, in *public* that I felt less-than-hysterical and not panicked.
Being surrounded by strangers frightens me & I'm not adept at getting to know new people (wish it were otherwise).
But I truly am happy for OP, I don't begrudge others what pleasure and relaxation they can find.

Certainly agree very much with the overall premise, though-
of simple joys being worth savoring, acknowledging, talking about.
My simple joys just generally take place in private at home by myself
bc. those are the conditions under which I feel calm & safe.
Though if I had a significant other I would like to enjoy that person's company as well...

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