How do I respond saying I need time?

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DON'T MOVE THIS TOPIC. Thank you.

I want to hide at the moment. I have no idea what to say to this guy on OKCupid because I can't think straight. How do I tell him I need some time before I can compose a proper reply? Cos he put effort in his message to me, and he seems really nice. I want to say I need lots of time to myself ATM and *not* make it out that I'm rejecting him. How do you do this?

I need lots of time to myself ATM and *not* that I'm rejecting you.

I dunno, if you can't figure out how to "lead him on" like "normal" girls maybe just say exactly what you want him to know.

Could work. Maybe.

Why would I want to lead him on? I think it's disgusting when people do that.

You're right, though...it shouldn't be too difficult to tell him. Thanks.

I can't do it.

I did it...properly.

Can the mods delete this thread please?

Been there, understand.

That must have been very hard, I'm proud of you, good job! (for what that's worth)
I hope everything goes good! =)

Awww, thank you very much!!