Anyone else lost their mate/true love/sweetie/already?

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FightingFish
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06 Dec 2015, 4:12 pm

I lost my closest friend three years ago. My male friend lost his wife half a year ago. (Both our dear ones had forms of aggressive cancer.) I would like to tell him that breathing gets easier, but the fact is that this is something one never gets over. Is anyone else here resigned to the club that no one wants to be in?



kraftiekortie
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07 Dec 2015, 7:30 pm

I've lost a few people.

The way it gets better is if you make use of your precious memories with those whom you've lost. Think about the funny times you've had, for example.

The people I've lost would have wanted me not to let that loss affect my life and my future. To me, that's a good friend.



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09 Dec 2015, 10:35 am

Thank you.