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I am kinda friendly with my neighbour we hang out a fair bit especially lately. Anyway he is getting really obsessive about his ex girlfriend and stalking her bydriving around to her house and sitting there, calling her up and hanging up, getting others to call her, getting people to knock on her door, guessing her password for email. facebook and RSVP and reading them on my computer, calling up the airline to find out when she is getting back from her holiday. Anyway my problem is that I am getting too fair involved I was there a few times when he was sitting outside her place, was a look out whilst he went into her shed and tonight turned off her lights at the fuse box. I realise they are wrong things to do but being aspie I am lonely, have few friends and according to family show all this like a big neon sign. He keeps saying I wont get in trouble but i have a feeling that if the cops are involved then i could.

yeah you need to un-involve yourself. you better find something to do that will give you an excuse, get you out of the house. do some charity work or something.

You know he's only in touch with you because he's using you (otherwise you wouldn't mention your lack of friends as your reason for going along with his stalking). That's too sad a situation, and even sadder that you don't even mention harming her as something that pains you. You only seem worried about getting caught and about not being alone.

By the way, being an accomplice is, needless to say, a crime according to the law, so you've been committing a crime. Excuse me, but I don't think you should come to WP asking whether to continue committing a crime or not. I think you should leave us out of it.

You're not a confused teenager, you're almost 30.

I really hope this thread is locked.

Oh i can understand it, it's often either 'bad' company or no company.

You have to be discerning about the members of the 'bad' company though - ones who try to involve you in criminal activities are best avoided. It's a good idea for aspies to acquaint themselves with the characteristics of sociopaths, which is what this guy sounds like.

It's been a while since your post how did things turn out?

The guy is a flake, enough said.