This is very pretentious. But, years ago I happened to listen to a lecture on the subject by the renown sociologist Zygmunt Bauman and since then I never ceased to think of Bauman's treatment and of the things he said. Of course we know well that all our contemporary culture is based on a strategy of systematic elusion of the theme. But still I think that a great number of people try in some way to face the problem by various means. Even if they often don’t know that what they do is motivated by some desire of immortality. The first thing that comes to mind here, and has a lot of weight, is to rear children. Not that they think crassly “children equal immortality”, but, even unconsciously, the idea is there.
The more you live alone, the more you think of death. And, after all, there is some sense the solution of child rearing. Even if they don’t know anything about genetics and DNA it’s true that communality of DNA is part of their attachment to their offspring. Even without children, you can find some form of durable legacy in any form of attachment and generosity toward others. You are less alone.
For us in the ASD the problem oh annihilation is a source of more anguish than for anyone else. We rarely have children, we are alone most of our life. We have sometimes the chance to produce art or literature or poetry. That was the solution for Emily Dickinson, or Kafka, or Lewis Carroll. But what was the quality of their life? And how many in the ASD have this outlet, outlet of cultural creativity, at their disposal?
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Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.
--Samuel Beckett