Bekkles wrote:
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To me, that comes
too close to mind-control and takes away the effort that persons with
autism make in pursuing their recovery.
I don't think so. The brain is an interesting thing. You can consciously make the effort to improve it, but I personally would rather take certain steps just to help that recovery by providing my brain with the things it needs to rebuild itself. I don't want to still be socially awkward when I'm 40 - I find it stressful, and it makes me feel like I don't want to live. It makes it hard for me - it is tiring. I just want to live my life being free to do what I WANT TO DO, not being handicapped as it were by AS, which prevents me from doing things. I want to go and talk to that person, he/she looks nice - but no, I can't because I don't know what to say - I have AS, which = few social skills.
I want to connect with another person. but I can't, because there's a pillar in my way. It's called AS.
Would you believe me if I told you, I've asked some "NT"'s similar questions, and even they may find it hard to know what to say at the right time? And to be honest, even if you have aspergers that doesn't mean you can't go up to that person and try. I believe in "Know thyself" and learning about myself to see what things I can do better.
You can do the same with yourself. Go on, take that chance. Nothing's holding you back. Not even your aspergers. It may make things slightly more challenging at times, but that doesn't mean you have to be shy.
I believe in God. Maybe I'm a Christian...
Monday Morning I was taken to two wrong buildings before I got to the right place. Normally I'd freak out and panic. I did not let it make me meltdown. Instead I asked around for some kind people to help me get to where I needed to be.
I proved to myself that day, I can overcome some of my obsticles. If it will always go so smoothly, I don't know. I just take each day at a time and try the best I can.
I hope you can find this encouraging in some way.