I watched this today with my younger sister and brother, who I haven't told about my suspicions that I have autism. It was a much better movie than I was expecting. Obvious enough now... Why else would there be widespread stereotypes based on it? I actually liked the movie itself and its message.
There was a lot of subtlety to it, that I wonder if the filmmakers even knew they were putting in. The soundtrack and cinematography kind of showed how Raymond was feeling. I live in an area with casinos and hate going into them--and I found watching the scenes in the casino to be even more overwhelming. I figure they did that on purpose. But the way the different characters reacted to Raymond was so interesting, almost beyond the times. They managed to tell a story that could go beyond what people knew or thought about autism at the time, even while showing what that was.
I was emotionally affected in a way I can't identify. Especially afterward, listening to my sister's innocent comments about the characters and autism... I realized that my family doesn't see any autistic traits I may have, because they only have a Rain Man level of understanding about it. I wonder if it's going to be harder or easier to talk to my sister about my own autism after this.
(And then I went and checked all the knobs on the stove and stimmed and dressed in tie-dye clothing, and tried not to start talking like Raymond Babbitt. No one notices, because they think *I'm* normal...)