Silver_Meteor wrote:
If Asperger's Syndrome is not a disability but simply a difference then by logical argument is it unfair if someone with Asperger's is considered disabled and receiving a disability check?
If the person cannot function in the world because of his/her Asperger's, she/he is disabled. The purpose of disability programs is to help people who are unable to make their way in the world due to causes beyond their control. If they CAN function and are simply taking the money because of a label, that's pretty darned sleazy.
I had a hell of a time, when I was younger, in the workforce. I did find that there were a number of careers in which someone like myself, who was pretty non-social, could do quite well. I liken it to being good at math. Some folks are, some folks (myself included) are not. I could never be a mathematician or an accountant. Still, there are a ton of jobs out there that don't require one to have to use much math. And there have been some for which being an Aspie was perfect - my jaunt through being a quality control person was a good example. Working nights in a computer room by myself, where the only person I ever saw was the janitor every night, was heaven! (It paid really well, too, and I learned it on the job.)
I'm one of the "olders" - we had no interventions. We (from having spoken to other older Aspies) got mentally beat up a lot, but a lot of us found our way through. The more severely impacted of us didn't. It used to be called "the school of hard knocks" - you found a way, some non-standard way, of getting through life. Or you didn't. It made a lot of us hard, some of us it broke. Take whatever support systems they've put in place for you now - schools, intervention, programs/training - and run with them. You have no idea how lucky you are that they exist.
But the one thing you should NOT do is say "I can't make it because I'm an Aspie." You are a non-standard model, yes. You may have to work creatively, and smarter, and probably a lot harder than someone who is "NT" to get by if you want to play in their world. That's the breaks - you play the cards you are dealt, the best way you can. You hustle your backside to get ahead. It's not really all that different than being dirt poor, or an immigrant from another country who does not speak english or who has never been to school or from a culture in which if you are a woman you do not speak to men. You have to find a way through. It's doable. It can be painful, but if you keep after it, it's doable. Even for those who are really, seriously down there on the spectrum, there's always ~something~ they can do. Excepting, of course, the folks who are so withdrawn that they're rocking in a corner in an institution, or the equivalent. Those folks need the social services dollars. It's, as I said above, pretty sleazy for someone who can possibly make it on their own to take those dollars - there are only a limited amount of dollars.
There's truly a place in the world for everyone. It's when you give up on that thought that you break. Of that much I am absolutely certain.
Good luck.
Last edited by Nan on 13 Feb 2008, 12:35 pm, edited 3 times in total.