Page 2 of 3 [ 39 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3  Next

Sparkstorm
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 26 Apr 2012
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Posts: 36
Location: Great Britain

02 May 2012, 3:41 pm

Has anyone noticed how none of the "therapists" who help with aspies actually are aspies. You never get any aspie aspie-therapists! There should be at least one.


_________________
People who look for a cure for autism are basically fascists. Even severely autistic people are often happy in their own world - why change that?


Sparkstorm
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 26 Apr 2012
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Posts: 36
Location: Great Britain

02 May 2012, 3:42 pm

Has anyone noticed how none of the "therapists" who help with aspies actually are aspies. You never get any aspie aspie-therapists! There should be at least one.


_________________
People who look for a cure for autism are basically fascists. Even severely autistic people are often happy in their own world - why change that?


GumbyLives
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2010
Age: 63
Gender: Female
Posts: 768
Location: LV-426

04 May 2012, 10:24 am

Sparkstorm wrote:
Has anyone noticed how none of the "therapists" who help with aspies actually are aspies. You never get any aspie aspie-therapists! There should be at least one.


And that's one of the biggest problems. They know us like a scientist knows a bug - they have theories and experiments and so on. But they have no real life experience to mentor or teach us with.


_________________
I would rather have my liver pecked out by a giant crow than spend a day at the mall. But I'd pay money to see a giant crow eat a mall.

Your Aspie score: 155 of 200 * Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 49 of 200 * You are very likely an Aspie


raylit20
Blue Jay
Blue Jay

User avatar

Joined: 23 Mar 2012
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 99

04 May 2012, 6:30 pm

I was questioning my psych teacher, who is currently studying to be a psychiatrist, about Autism as we were on a related child development chapter in the class. He mentioned that he hoped science finds a cure soon, and that scientists have found mercury and chemicals in vaccines to be the cause of most Autism.

All I could respond with was an awkward "Oh".



GumbyLives
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2010
Age: 63
Gender: Female
Posts: 768
Location: LV-426

05 May 2012, 3:00 pm

raylit20 wrote:
I was questioning my psych teacher, who is currently studying to be a psychiatrist, about Autism as we were on a related child development chapter in the class. He mentioned that he hoped science finds a cure soon, and that scientists have found mercury and chemicals in vaccines to be the cause of most Autism.

All I could respond with was an awkward "Oh".


Nice - NOT.


_________________
I would rather have my liver pecked out by a giant crow than spend a day at the mall. But I'd pay money to see a giant crow eat a mall.

Your Aspie score: 155 of 200 * Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 49 of 200 * You are very likely an Aspie


westernwild
Toucan
Toucan

User avatar

Joined: 12 Oct 2007
Age: 59
Gender: Female
Posts: 288
Location: The wild, wild West

07 May 2012, 11:25 pm

Sounds like a so-called "therapist" influenced by that harmful hate group FAAAS, which has done great damage all around, to aspies, to society's image of aspies, to the "training" of therapists, doctors, attorneys and social workers, said "training" involving indoctrination with FAAAS's special brand of hate and misinformation concerning AS. Most therapists really know and understand little about AS, and what they do think they know and understand they quite often got from either FAAAS or a similar group.


_________________
Queen of the anti-FAAAS. FAAAS does NOT speak for me and many other families!!

Life is not about waiting out storms, but learning to dance in the rain-Anonymous


Caesaran
Raven
Raven

User avatar

Joined: 30 Mar 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 111
Location: The Divide

08 May 2012, 4:09 pm

Sparkstorm wrote:
Has anyone noticed how none of the "therapists" who help with aspies actually are aspies. You never get any aspie aspie-therapists! There should be at least one.


Planning to be a therapist. I would love to work with young aspergians and such in part because i know their problems.



JuggaspieZ2k
Blue Jay
Blue Jay

User avatar

Joined: 8 Feb 2012
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 87

09 May 2012, 1:58 pm

Sparkstorm wrote:
Has anyone noticed how none of the "therapists" who help with aspies actually are aspies. You never get any aspie aspie-therapists! There should be at least one.


They should all be aspies, IMO.


_________________
The unsettled mind is at times an ally,
Leaving the senses to fend for themselves,
Then, the senses wanted the sky...


Dp0p
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 8 May 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 40

09 May 2012, 8:32 pm

cant be bothered reading all the comments but when you say 'therepist' do you mean psychologist or psychiatrist? or some other form of theropist? correct me if im wrong but plain theropist isnt a proffenion you cant get a degree in just theropy, although you can get a degree in physical theropy, music theropy ect.
its like saying psysosist sure to the ignorant physosist is a proffession but it isnt, qauntum physosist is, theoretical physosist is but not just physoist


yes i know my spelling is horrible but i am trying to hide the screen from my teacher right now so i cant see my keyboard or screen very well



Dp0p
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 8 May 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 40

09 May 2012, 8:37 pm

Caesaran wrote:
Sparkstorm wrote:
Has anyone noticed how none of the "therapists" who help with aspies actually are aspies. You never get any aspie aspie-therapists! There should be at least one.


Planning to be a therapist. I would love to work with young aspergians and such in part because i know their problems.


haha same bro and i plan to look for a 'cure' for all forms of asbhergers and ADD and ADHD, (when i say cure i mean to only fix the issues, the weaknesses not the strengths like the social development.)
again horrible spelling i know



Atomsk
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 9 Apr 2008
Age: 35
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,423

09 May 2012, 11:21 pm

Sparkstorm wrote:
I often wonder why we're the ones who are supposedly disabled.


I never wonder why we're the disabled ones when I have overloads, or when I have to do compulsive movements, stims, etc. I never questioned it when I was a kid and I had to literally do the same thing over and over and over again for hours, even though I didn't want to do it at all.



Dp0p
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 8 May 2012
Gender: Male
Posts: 40

09 May 2012, 11:39 pm

Atomsk wrote:
Sparkstorm wrote:
I often wonder why we're the ones who are supposedly disabled.


I never wonder why we're the disabled ones when I have overloads, or when I have to do compulsive movements, stims, etc. I never questioned it when I was a kid and I had to literally do the same thing over and over and over again for hours, even though I didn't want to do it at all.


i was thinking the same thing but i didnt want to kill the discusion by posting three times in a row haha.


_________________
ignore the spelling, read the message


GumbyLives
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2010
Age: 63
Gender: Female
Posts: 768
Location: LV-426

10 May 2012, 8:47 am

I agree about the overloads and such being disabling at times. And the social stuff can really screw us up. But the aim should be to keep us who we individually are, while helping us learn to manage our overloads (which can be done in all but the worst cases) and learn social skills. The aim too often is simply to break off our sharp edges so we are compatible in a theoretical NT world. I don't want to be an NT. I want to be a happy, fulfilled aspie.


_________________
I would rather have my liver pecked out by a giant crow than spend a day at the mall. But I'd pay money to see a giant crow eat a mall.

Your Aspie score: 155 of 200 * Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 49 of 200 * You are very likely an Aspie


CuriousKitten
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 19 Mar 2012
Age: 65
Gender: Female
Posts: 487
Location: Deep South USA

10 May 2012, 10:01 am

hanyo wrote:
GumbyLives wrote:
The other day I had to take a class for work, and one of the presenters (a therapist) made some really stupid remarks about people with aspergers. For example: "What would aspergers people do if there were no computer games? Hahaha" I tried to point out the obvious, but he didn't get it.


I don't even get what that means. I didn't even get online until I was 23 and didn't get my first computer until I was 33.


similar here. I was the "wrong" side of 30 when I got my first nintendo -- had to buy books for the Mario that came with it and never did finish it. I didn't get my hands on real computers until '98.

IMHO: I don't buy the claims that 90% or so of Aspies are unemployed/underemployed. I suspect it's of known Aspies/Auties, and what is know is only the tip of the iceburg. a study in South Korea indicated a 1 in 38 prevalence. I doubt South Korea is special, so if that holds true for us and we are still only detecting 1 in 88, where are the rest? flying under the radar undetected!

http://news.yale.edu/2011/05/09/prevale ... 8-children



jamieevren1210
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 May 2011
Age: 28
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,290
Location: 221b Baker St... (OKAY! Taipei!! Grunt)

10 May 2012, 10:06 am

EstherJ wrote:
I get a few types of reactions (in no particular order):
1. Disbelief: "Nah, you're normal. I know someone with Aspergers. You're nothing like them.You're just quirky. Stop trying to be "special.""
2. Ignorance - Disbelief: "Oh, autism. Is that the thing where you can't talk or you flap or something??? But you talk...you're ok."
3. Ignorance Squared: "Asper..how do you say it? What is it? I aint never heard of it."
4. Wonder - Enlightenment: "Oh! That makes so much sense now! Now I understand why you're different!"
5. Wonder Squared: "Woah. That's neat. I've never met someone like that. WOW."?


This. Totally.


_________________
Will be off the internet for some time. I'm challenging myself to stop any unnecessary Internet activity. Just to let you know...


GumbyLives
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 May 2010
Age: 63
Gender: Female
Posts: 768
Location: LV-426

10 May 2012, 1:19 pm

I agree totally, CuriousKitten. The only ones mainstream therapists and researchers know about are the ones that have no choice (in some way or another) to submit to their often disabling practices and "help".

I didn't really begin getting my sensory issues under control (most of the time, anyway) until maybe 10 years ago. And my social skills were so bad I didn't even know they were bad. But I had an inherent distrust of the psych/disability system, so I avoided it with all my intention. That means the info about my life (and others like me), and my discovering of ways to help and improve myself, are not and never will be part of the informational understanding and practice of any therapist.

And that matters not at all to almost all of them. Which makes their "help" garbage, at best; to the majority of us who are "hidden" in plain sight.


_________________
I would rather have my liver pecked out by a giant crow than spend a day at the mall. But I'd pay money to see a giant crow eat a mall.

Your Aspie score: 155 of 200 * Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 49 of 200 * You are very likely an Aspie