CharityGoodyGrace wrote:
Oh, and Moromillas, I used to deal with CROM (which people call the WMRC in Montreal). They're moral except for the abortion comment and the ABA that they admit has punishments and rewards in it that they call treatment for autism. So now I'm suspicious again.
On a side note, I'm wondering if the person that threatened me might have thought that since I was against the "rewards nad consequences" thing about ABA, that they maybe thought that I meant that autistics should just be let to do everything even stuff that hurts themselves or others. I should have made it clearer that this fake world of fake rewards and punishments that ABA creates is not acceptable. And for all I know, they punish kids for stimming and the like. I wonder who at CROM lies and who tells the truth.
I've never met or heard from this CROM before, I didn't know they did ABA. What I knew, I got from first impressions on their own website. In short, their opinion of me, and others on the spectrum, is gross, and creepy. We're sandwiched right in the middle between IDs and PPDs .... really? That's like sandwiching black people, or left handedness in the middle of dyslexia and paralysis in a list of treatments. Who in their right mind would do that. What's worse is that it's not a slip of the tongue in some communication, but it's one of the first things you see on their site. Meaning they do perhaps view us in the same light as those things, and don't see a problem with saying so, and therefore don't understand just how gross that is.
No doubt someone will mention a serious problem that AS people have. Like, self injurious behaviour. Ok, why then, do they mention a "treatment" for Autism, rather than a treatment for SIB? Autism isn't defined by SIB, a very small fraction of people have a problem with SIB. Why did they just jam AS in there?
There's a very real poison that's infecting society, that gives people the bizarre notion, that the Neurotypical way is the 'right' way, and that the Aspergian way is the 'wrong' way. It's sad, but more and more people seem to subscribe to the batshit crazy notion that deep inside of us, is a Neurotypical person, which is being smothered by "the Autism". Therefore, you get eugenics and "treatment", when we really need acceptance and accommodation.
The focus instead should be on educating NTs to not be so prejudiced and discriminatory, to get over themselves, and the absurd and offensive idea that they're somehow better than everyone else. We don't need a "cure" or more training to act NT; It's NTs that need to learn that, contrary to what they think, they're not God's gift to the earth, and in fact, could learn quite a lot from AS people.