Page 2 of 3 [ 47 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3  Next


What is the "D" word to use for autism?
debility 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
deficiency 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
deviance 6%  6%  [ 10 ]
difference 37%  37%  [ 58 ]
disability 21%  21%  [ 33 ]
disease 6%  6%  [ 10 ]
disorder 8%  8%  [ 13 ]
distinction 12%  12%  [ 18 ]
disturbance 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
dysfunction 6%  6%  [ 9 ]
Total votes : 155

Sora
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 15 Sep 2006
Gender: Female
Posts: 4,906
Location: Europe

10 Apr 2008, 8:12 am

Disability - the social construct of disability, not an attribute of the individual.

But I do use disorder in 'ASD' for 'autism/autistic spectrum disorder'. For a lack of a better word.


_________________
Autism + ADHD
______
The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it. Terry Pratchett


LeKiwi
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 26 Nov 2007
Age: 38
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,444
Location: The murky waters of my mind...

10 Apr 2008, 1:16 pm

I put difference, though "Asperger's Difference" doesn't sound too good. So I tend to just use syndrome and disorder interchangeably... my life is generally in a state of disorder and chaos in one form or other so I guess it makes sense!

I heard ASDs being called 'brain damaged' and 'brain injured' today, that really pissed me off.


_________________
We are a fever, we are a fever, we ain't born typical...


Fred54
Raven
Raven

User avatar

Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Age: 53
Gender: Male
Posts: 116
Location: Montréal, QC

10 Apr 2008, 3:51 pm

we should be able to vote for more than one choice :)


_________________
Don't fly in anything with a Capissen 38 engine, they fall right out of the sky...


Kaleido
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Feb 2007
Age: 66
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,615

10 Apr 2008, 4:01 pm

I put difference.

Different is a word that could apply to anyone since we are all different to each other, even identical twins have some differences.

Though what kind of different people on the spectrum could be called is another thing. I used to have a strong aversion to labels if I thought they were derogatory but they are useful.

Even then, some people may not want to be too different and some people enjoy being different, there is no winner really.



krex
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 20 Jun 2006
Age: 61
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 4,471
Location: Minnesota

11 Apr 2008, 2:59 am

I don't see why there needs to be any word after "aspergers"....the word itself defines particular traits without adding a value judgement. When ever I talk about it myself I use the term "trait" because I think it most closely fits without adding a value of good or bad. Some of my traits are good or bad for me and some of them do not allow me to do certain tasks, making that individual trait a dysfunction in my life but if Aspergers is the word they are using to define a "group" of traits that makes up a whole, the name should not itself be negative because some of those traits are positive.

My boyfriend has Multiple Sclerosis...there is no value judgement in that term, even though it certainly makes some things impossible for him. it is also not in the DSM even though it has cognitive side-effects...I don't think AS should be treated as a disease,etc but a neurological anomaly.(but that is only because I love the word anomily :wink: )


_________________
Just because one plane is flying out of formation, doesn't mean the formation is on course....R.D.Lang

Visit my wool sculpture blog
http://eyesoftime.blogspot.com/


sartresue
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Dec 2007
Age: 70
Gender: Female
Posts: 6,313
Location: The Castle of Shock and Awe-tism

11 Apr 2008, 11:52 am

D'Aut descriptions dictionary topic

Dazzling
Decisive
Dedicated
Deep
Delightful
Dependable
Detailed
Determined
Devoted
Dynamic

decently depicted! :D


_________________
Radiant Aspergian
Awe-Tistic Whirlwind

Phuture Phounder of the Philosophy Phactory

NOT a believer of Mystic Woo-Woo


NewportBeachDude
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 24 Dec 2007
Age: 64
Gender: Male
Posts: 355

11 Apr 2008, 7:34 pm

lau wrote:
OK. So I've just seen myself called dysfunctional. I find that offensive. In fact, I find most of these labels offensive.

I'll not surprise anyone by saying that my own vote goes to "difference".

My second choice would be "disability". I do find that my Asperger's syndrome is disabling, to an extent, as society currently doesn't accommodate some of my differences particularly well (as I found out last week, when the National Autistic Society flashed images in my eyes for an hour, without thinking it might destroy my concentration).

I really would like people to stop calling me diseased or disordered.



Initially, I was going to pick "difference." But, I felt that was too broad of a term. I prefer the terms 'disorder' or 'disability.' They don't offend me because there are definately things we deal with that are disabling. But, I think when my kid gets older it's up to him to define himself. For medical purposes, they do use "disorder." That's what most of the doctors use. Very seldom do you hear 'disease.' And, outside of the medical community you hear 'disability' a lot.



Gremlin
Hummingbird
Hummingbird

User avatar

Joined: 11 Dec 2006
Age: 54
Gender: Male
Posts: 18
Location: Denver

12 Apr 2008, 7:20 am

I hadn't thought about it until now; but, since it's been suggested, and insofar as it's actually a noun, I kinda like Dynamic.

Otherwise, I don't care much. Words don't really offend me, on their own. The people [mis]using them can repulse me, but that's not the words' fault.

I don't care what people call me. That's something my lawyers can get excited about.


_________________
Yeah; like I'd be capable of sarcasm....


Kaleido
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Feb 2007
Age: 66
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,615

12 Apr 2008, 11:57 am

sartresue wrote:
D'Aut descriptions dictionary topic

Dazzling
Decisive
Dedicated
Deep
Delightful
Dependable
Detailed
Determined
Devoted
Dynamic

decently depicted! :D

I like that list very much :D



sartresue
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Dec 2007
Age: 70
Gender: Female
Posts: 6,313
Location: The Castle of Shock and Awe-tism

13 Apr 2008, 11:38 am

The "D" list topic

Thank you Kaleido. I like your London winter snow pic. :D


_________________
Radiant Aspergian
Awe-Tistic Whirlwind

Phuture Phounder of the Philosophy Phactory

NOT a believer of Mystic Woo-Woo


Kaleido
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 18 Feb 2007
Age: 66
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,615

13 Apr 2008, 11:42 am

Thanks. I really enjoyed my morning in the snow and took loads of pics.



Jaded
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 14 Oct 2007
Age: 44
Gender: Female
Posts: 553

15 Apr 2008, 6:36 pm

dude.

i take issue with the 'delightful'.... Those are fighting words where I come from.



lastcrazyhorn
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 10 Oct 2007
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,170
Location: Texas

04 May 2008, 3:17 pm

Distinction.

From Dictionary.com -

1. a marking off or distinguishing as different: His distinction of sounds is excellent.
2. the recognizing or noting of differences; discrimination: to make a distinction between right and wrong.
3. a discrimination made between things as different; special regard or favoritism: Death comes to all without distinction.
4. condition of being different; difference: There is a distinction between what he says and what he does.
5. a distinguishing quality or characteristic: It has the distinction of being the oldest house in the town.
6. a distinguishing or treating with special honor, attention, or favor.
7. an act of bestowing, or a mark of, honor or favor.
8. marked superiority; note; eminence.
9. distinguished appearance.


_________________
"I am to misbehave" - Mal

BATMAN: I'll do everything I can to rehabilitate you.
CATWOMAN: Marry me.
BATMAN: Everything except that.

http://lastcrazyhorn.wordpress.com - "Odd One Out: Reality with a refreshing slice of aspie"


lastcrazyhorn
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 10 Oct 2007
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,170
Location: Texas

04 May 2008, 3:18 pm

Kaleido wrote:
sartresue wrote:
D'Aut descriptions dictionary topic

Dazzling
Decisive
Dedicated
Deep
Delightful
Dependable
Detailed
Determined
Devoted
Dynamic

decently depicted! :D

I like that list very much :D


I'm sort of partial to dastardly, myself. :P In relation to being something like a dastardly super villain . . . lol

Okay, for real. Um--ah! Delectable. :)


_________________
"I am to misbehave" - Mal

BATMAN: I'll do everything I can to rehabilitate you.
CATWOMAN: Marry me.
BATMAN: Everything except that.

http://lastcrazyhorn.wordpress.com - "Odd One Out: Reality with a refreshing slice of aspie"


Kris94
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 31 May 2007
Age: 30
Gender: Male
Posts: 352
Location: Elsewhere

04 May 2008, 3:24 pm

my teacher said i was 'defective' in front of the class once.

I got really upset and cried later.

i was only 7 at the time though.


_________________
Haven't been here a while. Huh.


velodog
Gold Supporter
Gold Supporter

User avatar

Joined: 15 Mar 2008
Age: 65
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,374

04 May 2008, 3:35 pm

Sora wrote:
Disability - the social construct of disability, not an attribute of the individual.

But I do use disorder in 'ASD' for 'autism/autistic spectrum disorder'. For a lack of a better word.


Putting aside my general disdain for Sociology (sorry nominalist) I do believe that the term disability is best reserved for legal purposes. I generally agree with this post. Is there a particular reason an alternative word you would use has to start with a "D" Lau?