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23 Sep 2011, 2:17 pm

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(I have to go and eat now - this has taken hours... :oops: )


All opinion aside I am ABSOLUTELY IN AWE of the work you put into this...and that is something, usually, NOBODY bothers to say...thank you.

That being said, I have seen enough to convince me that John Scotty Holman is, not only completely out of line in the immediate sense, but also exceptionally bad news in a longer term, more general way, and if you check back here, (which I don't recommend, after that marathon you would probably go blind...or at any rate cross-eyed! 8O ) you will see that comes from a position where, even as an anti Autism Industry hardliner, I was originally prepared to stand up for him as an immature misguided and well meaning kid,, and concerned in case he was a bit too brittle for some of the "reception committees" setting up elsewhere just for him (they KNOW WHO I MEAN!).

The only thing that changed my mind were his own chosen words and actions, and I have no doubt whatsoever that time (and not even necessarily very much of it) will prove my conclusions for me.

My only concern now is with damage limitation.

:(



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23 Sep 2011, 2:23 pm

please do not respond to this post any longer.if needed a real moderator can physicaly lock it


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23 Sep 2011, 2:35 pm

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Thanks Cornflake, I read the same information and came to the same conclusion. This internet site Wrong Planet, is an accepting one of different views, unlike some other websites.

When one of us is bullied others typically come to our defense, sometimes even if we don't personally like each other, and many times when we clash with views. I see that as what sets this site apart from others.

Tambourine man is a welcome member here, and those of us that see him as a valued member won't tolerate him being bullied, his personal character attacked, or his families character attacked like it was on AFF.

Hopefully he has not at this point felt bullied and censored off this site, as he was on the other site, for attempting to provide objective information about an organization that much controversy surrounds.

While his interview is no longer available on the front page of AFF, it is still available among the pages of this thread and the other current thread of discussion on this topic, in case anyone wants to read it and provide complaints or constructive criticism about the answers to the questions in the interview that Autism Speaks provided. The organization is paying attention to these threads, so it is an opportunity for individuals to let their concerns be known on relevant issues related to the organization.

Aghogday, I don't agree with much of what you say at all. But I can understand you now, when this is the sort of crap that is thrown at people who simply put up an interview with autism speaks. It's hard to think straight when there's a banshee screaming at you all the time.



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23 Sep 2011, 3:50 pm

Zeraeph wrote:
That being said, I have seen enough to convince me that John Scotty Holman is, not only completely out of line in the immediate sense, but also exceptionally bad news in a longer term, more general way,

What? There is no proof for anything at all. There's no reason why he's bad news, no reason why he's out of line. If anything all of the people who have accused him of anything were out line, especially for all of the lying they accused him of and all of their bullying remarks. Out of line just sounds like a personal issue here, because there is no proof whatsoever that Tambourine_man did anything wrong. Not a single byte from ages has shown that Tambourine_man means any harm at all and yet there is some hearking back to something you 'have seen', none of which you show.


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and if you check back here, (which I don't recommend, after that marathon you would probably go blind...or at any rate cross-eyed! 8O ) you will see that comes from a position where, even as an anti Autism Industry hardliner, I was originally prepared to stand up for him as an immature misguided and well meaning kid,,

Although Tambourine_man was only saying that we should open dialogue with other people. Any other interpretation is made out of thin air. And this isn't a game of politics. Saying that just because you helped him in the past doesn't justify anything you said later. All actions are judged on their own merits, no matter the person.

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The only thing that changed my mind were his own chosen words and actions, and I have no doubt whatsoever that time (and not even necessarily very much of it) will prove my conclusions for me.

As Cornflake showed there is no proof whatsoever that Tambourin_man did anything wrong. In the end all the accusations were vacuous and based on a single premise: Autism Speaks is evil, all who associate with it in any way, even when inocuous, must be destroyed.

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My only concern now is with damage limitation.

:(

There is no damage caused by Tambourine_man. Instead he expects apologies from people who bullied him, said he was a liar and said that everything that was done to him was justified because in the end there's no fooling that Tambourine_man just got caught in a whirlwind of unreflective hatred.



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23 Sep 2011, 4:12 pm

I utterly disagree with Gedrene's statements, but will comply with vermontsavant's request and say nothing further at this time regarding Tambourine-Man.


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23 Sep 2011, 4:15 pm

Gedrene,

I am now formally requesting that you stop derailing every thread you see me participate by using them in as an excuse to attack me, and find another hobby.

If you really cannot live without attacking me I suggest you send future attacks by pm where I can ignore them and they do not disrupt discussion threads.



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23 Sep 2011, 4:23 pm

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I utterly disagree with Gedrene's statements, but will comply with vermontsavant's request and say nothing further at this time regarding Tambourine-Man.

For which you have no reason to disagree because I am simply justifying why no one has a reason to have ever attacked Tambourine_man at all with such vicious vindictive.



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23 Sep 2011, 4:41 pm

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Gedrene,

I am now formally requesting that you stop derailing every thread you see me participate by using them in as an excuse to attack me, and find another hobby.

Zeraeph, why don't you stop making accusations that I have some sort of personal problem with you? I was criticizing the faults of your arguments as I did with anyone else on this forum. You're not up for any sort of special treatment, it's just that this time you're saying most of the unjustified things. This sort of blank attempt and being frank doesn't excuse you from the fact that you tried to squeeze in a condemnation of Tambourine_man even after it has become hilariously clear that at no time he has played lip service to anyone like you claimed, that he was not at all bad like you claimed and that he was not dangerous at all, like you claimed.

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If you really cannot live without attacking me I suggest you send future attacks by pm where I can ignore them and they do not disrupt discussion threads.

Maybe you should stop insinuating that I am focusing on you. Because if the ratio of post to reply is to be believed I'd say that you'd also have to condemn me of having a fixation with half of the people who have been on this forum in the last six months, and gosh knows you only somehow seem to notice that I have some 'fixation' when it is you that I am criticizing, and not ci, for the replies I made to him far outnumber those made to you. Compared to the posts I made to ci this is peanuts. And nonetheless it doesn't deflect from the fact that all I ever did was said you should justify why you attacked Tambourine_man, and lo and behold Cornflake showed that you couldn't.

If you cannot take reasonable criticism then you shouldn't post on here at all because no one is allowed to make any sort of veiled threat. Not long ago you told Aghogday off for using your name, yet you have been splashing around Tambourine_man's real name like no tomorrow. That isn't suspect.

Only after it has been exposed that tambourine_man did nothing wrong does it appear that people attempt to talk straight, or with some kind of modesty or restraint. No more 'complete rubbish' or condescending video links.

As for all these accusations now levelled against me I think now would be a good time to quote Socrates from Plato's Apology:
What you, men of Athens, have learned from my accusers, I do not know: but I, for my part, nearly forgot who I was thanks to them, since they spoke so persuasively. And yet, of the truth, they have spoken, one might say, nothing at all.



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23 Sep 2011, 5:04 pm

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I utterly disagree with Gedrene's statements, but will comply with vermontsavant's request and say nothing further at this time regarding Tambourine-Man.
i didnt say you couldnt talk about him,just not PERSONAL ATTACKS.feel free to make as many POLITE critizism of his political view points as you like


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23 Sep 2011, 5:13 pm

vermontsavant wrote:
AlanTuring wrote:
I utterly disagree with Gedrene's statements, but will comply with vermontsavant's request and say nothing further at this time regarding Tambourine-Man.
i didnt say you couldnt talk about him,just not PERSONAL ATTACKS.feel free to make as many POLITE critizism of his political view points as you like

Well, that's funny!



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23 Sep 2011, 5:13 pm

vermontsavant wrote:
AlanTuring wrote:
I utterly disagree with Gedrene's statements, but will comply with vermontsavant's request and say nothing further at this time regarding Tambourine-Man.
i didnt say you couldnt talk about him,just not PERSONAL ATTACKS.feel free to make as many POLITE critizism of his political view points as you like

I'm sorry if I gave the impression that you had said I wasn't to post about Tambourine-Man at all.

You did ask that none of us make any personal attacks on him.

What I have to say regarding him, however, would be construed by some as personal attacks.

I am fully capable of playing with language enough to communicate my feelings without violating the letter of your instructions, but I will refrain from doing so out of respect for the spirit of your instructions.

The line between honesty and personal attack in this situation is very, very thin.


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23 Sep 2011, 5:21 pm

AlanTuring wrote:
vermontsavant wrote:
AlanTuring wrote:
I utterly disagree with Gedrene's statements, but will comply with vermontsavant's request and say nothing further at this time regarding Tambourine-Man.
i didnt say you couldnt talk about him,just not PERSONAL ATTACKS.feel free to make as many POLITE critizism of his political view points as you like

I'm sorry if I gave the impression that you had said I wasn't to post about Tambourine-Man at all.

You did ask that none of us make any personal attacks on him.

What I have to say regarding him, however, would be construed by some as personal attacks.

I am fully capable of playing with language enough to communicate my feelings without violating the letter of your instructions, but I will refrain from doing so out of respect for the spirit of your instructions.

The line between honesty and personal attack in this situation is very, very thin.
im sorry if i gave an impression you did anything wrong at all.i didnt say you were rude at all,far from it.i just wanted everyone to know only rudeness and personal remarks were banned.i should maybe have made that more clear,my bad


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23 Sep 2011, 5:41 pm

Vermonsavant just sent this outright lie to me by pm:

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the main person derailing posts is you.i thought its been made clear 1,000,000 times that direct such critizisms off forum.in case you cant take a hint, your the one who chased T man off line and made us suspend this thread.i have tried to be your friend on the forum but im losing my patience.stop causing trouble on this forum


I knew he was unfit to be a mod or any kind of "liaison member" because he is just too far out of his depth intellectually, and happy to let anyone who flatters him and plays up to him use him as a weapon.

It would makes more sense to reinstate ci and make him "liaison member".

After watching me persistently stalked and harassed by Gedrene, derailing thread after thread in pursuit of his obsession, this unwarranted attack on me is absolutely disgusting.

I will never post here again unless there is a public apology from vermontsavant, appropriate censure of Gedrene's vicious obsession with attacking me, and the whole travesty of letting vermontsavant think of himself as some kind of moderator comes to an end, because he is instrumental in stirring more trouble than he prevents.



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23 Sep 2011, 9:59 pm

vermontsavant wrote:
AlanTuring wrote:
vermontsavant wrote:
AlanTuring wrote:
I utterly disagree with Gedrene's statements, but will comply with vermontsavant's request and say nothing further at this time regarding Tambourine-Man.
i didnt say you couldnt talk about him,just not PERSONAL ATTACKS.feel free to make as many POLITE critizism of his political view points as you like

I'm sorry if I gave the impression that you had said I wasn't to post about Tambourine-Man at all.

You did ask that none of us make any personal attacks on him.

What I have to say regarding him, however, would be construed by some as personal attacks.

I am fully capable of playing with language enough to communicate my feelings without violating the letter of your instructions, but I will refrain from doing so out of respect for the spirit of your instructions.

The line between honesty and personal attack in this situation is very, very thin.
im sorry if i gave an impression you did anything wrong at all.i didnt say you were rude at all,far from it.i just wanted everyone to know only rudeness and personal remarks were banned.i should maybe have made that more clear,my bad


He started a vicious mess over on AFF. They are still burning me alive over there. I'm making wrongplanet my new home.

They really turned sick over there.



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23 Sep 2011, 10:09 pm

You guys don't allow the same kind of bullying over here. I see that and I am incredibly pleased.

And Alex is really cool.

He's a movie nerd too.

Thanks for sticking up for me guys. That alan guy started things all over again on Aff.



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23 Sep 2011, 10:11 pm

So anyway... the benefits of respectability and moderation in autism advocacy politics...

As you were gentlemen...