ClosetAspy, these remarks are highly misguided:
ClosetAspy wrote:
Autism a fraud? Definitely not! But I think Savage does have a point there, and I think he is issuing a wake-up call here. The other day I was in the grocery store when a kid (not a toddler, but a 9 or 10 year old) decided to have a very loud meltdown. As an ASD individual who is trying to make it in society, I was deeply embarrassed. True, I was no angel at that age, but I knew that there were some things I just did not do, and throwing tantrums in a store was one of them.
Not everyone with AS will hold the same standards of behaviour as you did, regardless of how hard the parents try.
ClosetAspy wrote:
What does it say about us when a child's public meltdown is explained away as due to autism? If the ONLY image that the NT public has of us is that of unruly children, it is no wonder that we face discrimination as adults! To excuse bad behavior on the grounds of autism does not do anybody any favors, and only gives fuel to Savage and his ilk.
The difference in behaviour and prevalence of symptoms is why many of us wish to consider autistic disorders to be put on a "spectrum" rather than considered as a single condition. The single most significant misconception I can see people uninformed about AS making is to put us all in the same boat, as (say) the kid from the supermarket or as Dustin Hoffman from Rain Man.
ClosetAspy wrote:
Are autistic kids brats? Yes, in many cases. Do they HAVE to be brats? NO! Autistic children can and must be taught self-discipline. They can be held accountable for their behavior. It may be more difficult, but it is not impossible.
This may well be impossible to do to the extent you describe.
ClosetAspy wrote:
Otherwise, how can we ever expect society to accept us as equals?
We're not equals. Many people need special attention. Treatment that may not be equal but is nonetheless fair is still reasonable to expect. I'm not the ten year-old kid you saw at the supermarket.
ClosetAspy wrote:
Yes, what Savage said is rude, insensitive, but it is how a lot of people do feel about autistic children--and with good reason. Maybe instead of condemning him we ought to listen to him and ask ourselves, where is this man coming from, and why? I can tell you if my only experience or knowledge of autism was what I see in the grocery store, I think I'd be inclined to agree with him regarding autistic children.
Your reasoning would be poor, based on a weak inductive argument. Of course Savage doesn't require strong reasoning to do his job, all he needs to do is cause a sensation.