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03 Nov 2011, 10:10 pm

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Okay, my point was that he has no guidence. How could he learn from his mistakes when he apparently has no loving support, and everyone else who wants to "help him" typically harp on him for what he's done wrong, furthering his demoralization, and lengthening his antics. On top of that, the CWCiki takes it too far. I find that the recent hack of that site to be amusing (Gary was here, Ash is a loser. lol), but I actually hope that its content is saved for psychologists to analyze on both Chris and the trolls' part, and taken off the internet.


Exactly! What he seems to be lacking are people around him that really believe in him and want to help him, instead of just criticizing him and treating him like a circus act. He needs a quality support network of people who are very direct in their approaches to help him with social and occpational skills, so that he can gain friends, a job, and perhaps a girlfriend.

Sadly, he is not being honest with himself and his difficulties. He pushes away any sort of help he gets, whether it be directly (by not associating with the wider autistic community) or indirectly (by reacting inappropriately to people who do reach out to help him).

His psychological report on ED suggests that he continue to go to counselling. I doubt he's done that, but if he does do that, it has the potential to transform him. He also needs to know the difference between negative and postitive attention, as he likely figures that any attention on him at all is a good thing. He has embarrassed himself so much though, and exhibits so many inappropriate behaviours, that it's hard to know where to really start with him.


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09 Nov 2011, 3:01 pm

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Exactly! What he seems to be lacking are people around him that really believe in him and want to help him, instead of just criticizing him and treating him like a circus act. He needs a quality support network of people who are very direct in their approaches to help him with social and occpational skills, so that he can gain friends, a job, and perhaps a girlfriend.

Sadly, he is not being honest with himself and his difficulties. He pushes away any sort of help he gets, whether it be directly (by not associating with the wider autistic community) or indirectly (by reacting inappropriately to people who do reach out to help him).

His psychological report on ED suggests that he continue to go to counselling. I doubt he's done that, but if he does do that, it has the potential to transform him. He also needs to know the difference between negative and postitive attention, as he likely figures that any attention on him at all is a good thing. He has embarrassed himself so much though, and exhibits so many inappropriate behaviours, that it's hard to know where to really start with him.


Yeah, that's totally how I feel about him too. It says on those pages that he's recently been arrested. 8O
Maybe they'll find someone who can help him. :)


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09 Nov 2011, 3:14 pm

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Yeah, that's totally how I feel about him too. It says on those pages that he's recently been arrested. 8O
Maybe they'll find someone who can help him. :)

Ironically I think it's the parent's fault for how he turned out since the mother was involved in the affair and did it with him. :/



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09 Nov 2011, 11:22 pm

He's a celeb now.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2kP9vojVcwk&feature=g-rec-videos[/youtube]



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09 Nov 2011, 11:25 pm

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZNWIBN3kHo[/youtube]



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10 Nov 2011, 1:04 pm

I wonder if Chris realizes he could actually make a living as himself, I could see him becoming a regular on some morning radio show. It might not be ideal, and certainly not a true "representation" of any condition, but for his own financial welfare, it's something I could see happening. Maybe FOX will pick up a show around him.



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10 Nov 2011, 1:06 pm

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I wonder if Chris realizes he could actually make a living as himself, I could see him becoming a regular on some morning radio show. It might not be ideal, and certainly not a true "representation" of any condition, but for his own financial welfare, it's something I could see happening. Maybe FOX will pick up a show around him.

Oh yes, bread and circuses for Rome. L: Another gladiator for the sport of madmen if you please.



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10 Nov 2011, 1:34 pm

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I wonder if Chris realizes he could actually make a living as himself, I could see him becoming a regular on some morning radio show. It might not be ideal, and certainly not a true "representation" of any condition, but for his own financial welfare, it's something I could see happening. Maybe FOX will pick up a show around him.

Oh yes, bread and circuses for Rome. L: Another gladiator for the sport of madmen if you please.


Do you think homelessness would be better for him? I did not enjoy it.



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10 Nov 2011, 7:02 pm

Oh snap.

Him again? :roll:

I've only got two things to say.

1. If the guy really is Autistic, which I highly doubt, he's using his Autism as an excuse to be stupid, obnoxious, annoying, and to, (you guessed it!) GET ATTENTION. Well since that's what his aim is, he's doing it very well. Good for him. He's being hammered on because he BEGS for it. I don't believe for one minute that he doesn't enjoy every second of it. If he didn't enjoy it, he would have knocked it off by now.

2. If he's not Autistic, he's a downright despicable scum bag.

Either way, he's not worth one second of my time.


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10 Nov 2011, 9:22 pm

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Oh snap.

Him again? :roll:

I've only got two things to say.

1. If the guy really is Autistic, which I highly doubt, he's using his Autism as an excuse to be stupid, obnoxious, annoying, and to, (you guessed it!) GET ATTENTION. Well since that's what his aim is, he's doing it very well. Good for him. He's being hammered on because he BEGS for it. I don't believe for one minute that he doesn't enjoy every second of it. If he didn't enjoy it, he would have knocked it off by now.

2. If he's not Autistic, he's a downright despicable scum bag.

Either way, he's not worth one second of my time.


The "Signs" parody above is pretty funny though...



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12 Nov 2011, 7:40 am

Apparently Chris is about to go to jail for an attack on the Game Place store.



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13 Nov 2011, 9:24 am

Not to be cold but he subjects himself to the ridicule. It's not like people force him to act like a weird douche. The fact remains, he's just some creepy internet ret*d and I have no sympathy for him.



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13 Nov 2011, 9:30 am

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Not to be cold but he subjects himself to the ridicule. It's not like people force him to act like a weird douche. The fact remains, he's just some creepy internet ret*d and I have no sympathy for him.

Thus we are enabling bullying again. :/



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13 Nov 2011, 9:34 am

shrox wrote:
Gedrene wrote:
shrox wrote:
I wonder if Chris realizes he could actually make a living as himself, I could see him becoming a regular on some morning radio show. It might not be ideal, and certainly not a true "representation" of any condition, but for his own financial welfare, it's something I could see happening. Maybe FOX will pick up a show around him.

Oh yes, bread and circuses for Rome. L: Another gladiator for the sport of madmen if you please.


Do you think homelessness would be better for him? I did not enjoy it.

Indeed. And so you supposed bullying a man is any better? Say, you said you were a christian were you not? Since when did being a christian involve harassing a man with no sense of direction, a terrible upbringing, severe loneliness and no wisdom whatsoever?



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13 Nov 2011, 9:37 am

No, we are simply allowing a grown man to accept the consequence of his actions and how he presents himself. You can't feel bad for this guy. He comes across as Rain Man crossed with Buffalo Bill. I feel no need to stick up or defend him. He makes a choice to be a target.



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13 Nov 2011, 9:38 am

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I've only got two things to say.

1. If the guy really is Autistic, which I highly doubt, he's using his Autism as an excuse to be stupid, obnoxious, annoying, and to, (you guessed it!) GET ATTENTION. Well since that's what his aim is, he's doing it very well. Good for him. He's being hammered on because he BEGS for it. I don't believe for one minute that he doesn't enjoy every second of it. If he didn't enjoy it, he would have knocked it off by now.
Of course, because you know no autistic person is simply socially ret*d are they? Good heavens no they all engage the socially labyrinthine customs of NTs in the most awkward and unknowledgeable way possible in order to fulfill some deep-seated obligation of masochism.

Say, you ever hear of the concept of craven self-justification?