vermontsavant wrote:
im not sure if im asexual.i definatly love women always have.i have never been able to be aroused or erect in a intamate moment.im not impotent,i have erections all the time,but i tend to shut down when with a naked female.i also find porno or looking at full frontal nudety completely uninteresting.im married and i use viagra and drink lots of cofee before hand.i know something isnt right,but am not sure if im asexual
Most asexuals define themselves as people who don't experience sexual attraction. But I know sometimes it's hard to figure out what sexual attraction IS, especially if you don't experience it or experience it at a very low level. I would definitely recommend checking out the FAQs over at AVEN,
www.asexuality.org. Unfortunately they're not as up-to-date as they could be, but they still have some good information. And for me, what really made me realize I was asexual was just reading the personal stories of a lot of other asexuals. AVEN is good for that, as well.
Edited to add: But are you asking this because you're wondering if you can participate in the carnival? You can! It's open to anyone who can cover both topics. You don't have to be asexual, or 100% sure that you're asexual.