Nexus wrote:
MrXxx wrote:
Behavioral modification is the worst effing way to deal with Autism. It's the very reason i pulled my kid out of a school that claimed to be experts on dealing with all kinds of kids with behavioral problems, including those with Autism.
There's just one effed up problem with that thinking. Autism is a NEUROLOGICAL problem, NOT a behavioral problem.
Stupid fools.
As someone who was considered a textbook Autistic LFA, that's the treatment I received and if it wasn't for that, I'd still be LFA to this day. In my case it was a predominately behavioural problem and I didn't have mental retardation as a co-morbid, and I improved to HFA within years. So when I hear people say things like this, I can't help feeling that I was very fortunate to have the right circumstances and dedicated parents who worked with me along with a child psychiatrist, social worker and doctor. So yeah, behavioural modification done right works wonders.
I wasn't bulled into modifying my behaviour though, I was merely engaged in, shown and encouraged to behave more appropriately and disciplined while given the freedom to do my own thing frequently too. I wasn't forced to be 'normal', I was merely given enough to understand why it's important to behave and adapt.
Okay, that's great. But what you're describing isn't even remotely like anything I've ever seen around here called behavioral modification. I call what they did with you reasoning, and that's what I do with my kids. It does work a hell of a lot better. Locking them in a freaking room, or putting them in a room that's too cold to work in, or in a basement, whenever they do things that are "unacceptable" (like putting their heads down on their desk because they're tired for god sake), is the kind of thing I've always seen with the behavioral modification tag. And, if they don't want to go into the rooms, or whatever godforsaken alternate place they have for the, then come the restraints.
I don't want to talk about it anymore, because it just pisses me off to no end all over again. If I had known then what I know now about Autism, I would have shouted at the top of my lungs at those idiots, and pulled him out of there far FAR earlier. I'm STILL pissed off that we trusted them.
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