AJCoyne wrote:
AScomposer13413 wrote:
Hold on a minute, what's the distinction you guys are making between apologizing for and redacting a statement??
I guess I think of it like...if I called you a d*ck.
If I apologised I'd say "I'm sorry I called you a d*ck", but inside I'd still think you were a d*ck.
If I retracted my statement I'd say "Err, I mean, you're not really a d*ck.", but inside I'd still be thinking you're a d*ck, difference is now I would have lied just to appease you. That only causes problems, really, because nothing's going to change my mind and sooner or later you're going to find out that not only do I think you're a d*ck, but I also lied to you.
But even when you're redacting something like that, wouldn't you still have to preface it with "I'm sorry"?? Not to mention, on that same logic, saying "I'm sorry I called you that" when you're probably thinking it would still constitute a lie, to a degree. I would just have less of a reason to call you on it.
AJCoyne wrote:
You know? Saying that, I don't think you're a d*ck, I like you
Thanks! And for the record, the sentiment's mutual: I don't think you're a *insert different synonym for the word she used*. I like you too
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