Oh, it will. There are already jerks out there arguing to bring back forced sterilization; a prenatal test will be sought and pregnancies will be terminated.
Fine. Whatever. I can't make that choice for anyone else. If someone can barely handle a "normal" child-- and since coming back to the fine Eastern US to live among educated people near a metropolitan area, I have seen a really depressing amount of people who can't handle "normal" children-- then I wouldn't wish them on a spectrum child.
If they want to throw back Divinity's backhanded blessings, that's their problem. Take it up with the Management, man.
What society needs to fight-- to the bitter end-- is the fact that genetic counselors ENCOURAGE people to abort these pregnancies. Treat it as a foregone conclusion. I had a diagnostic ultrasound with my last DD; to get it, I had to go through the whole package, genetic counseling and all.
The poor woman looked so apologetic when she said there was no way to detect AS in a fetus yet (stupid Aspie, I answer honestly when they ask questions), but geneticists were working on it.
Then I told her that it wouldn't matter. I wouldn't want to know. It wouldn't change my feelings toward the fetus in question, it wouldn't change my course of action. She actually did not know what to say. All she could do was look at me with that combination of eyes, brows, mouth, and slant of head that denotes confusion.
Then I had to argue about my decision never to ever ever ever take risperidone again. With a goddamn obstetrician. WRONG END, DUMMY!! !!
So I got my diagnostic ultrasound, I never did get an answer to my question about whether all the fluoxetine I was taking was affecting the baby's blood pressure (what I'd been there about in the first place), and I got to see her little fetal face in really incredible detail. I got in the car and patted her little butt through my belly and told her that I loved her no matter what kind of neurology she turned out to have, and drove away. Never went back there.
If we're going to have very early diagnosis, we need better treatments than ABA. Ones that are about optimizing function, not minimizing NT discomfort.
And we need a lot more acceptance. Autism needs to stop being a tragedy. Parents need to be able to be in a store with a child having a meltdown and get compassion rather than criticism and judgment. People need to stop being so foul to each other in general.
'Course, if we do that, Divinity will bless us. Or we'll be blessing ourselves. Or whatever. We won't be going to Hell in a handcart any more, and none of it will matter so much.
Never mind. f**k it. Develop a prenatal test and abort 'em-- this world isn't good enough to be trusted with autistic children. Hope their little souls draw a better dimension on the next incarnation.
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"Alas, our dried voices when we whisper together are quiet and meaningless, as wind in dry grass, or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar." --TS Eliot, "The Hollow Men"