gonewild wrote:
I think it would be good for former Aspergers to self-describe who we are and what we are like. We don't have to accept a pejorative description based solely on the fact that the social majority can't grasp that not being JUST LIKE THEM means someone is defective, handicapped, disabled and not quite human.
So it has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with a neurological difference which can cause us to have more problems than simply not being liked? We shouldn't have medical diagnosis and treat conditions and help anyone because somebody might take offense at having a diagnosis? If we don't have any diagnosis to use for things, practicing medicine will get much harder. The doctor would have to say "He has that thing where you know, his stomach goes all in like this instead of like that and it hurts". That's a pretty steep price to pay for preventing somebody from taking personal offense that there is a name for a condition which they either have or think they have. If it bothers you then don't tell anyone about it. If it causes you to have problems then you could probably use some sort of treatment or help with symptoms, etc. If it's just that you aren't liked, that isn't a disorder.
Which is it? Do we demand acceptance despite our neurological differences and work with and around our difficulties with accommodations and hope for understand about any issues we may have that stem from AS, or do we insist that there is nothing about us to label, we are just like everybody else and even though we have no defined disorder we should get accommodations and understanding because we just want it? Can't have it both ways. Either it's a disorder that can cause problems to various degrees so it has a name or it doesn't exist and everybody is just being a big snot. I don't think the second one is gonna fly very well though.