Amity wrote:
carlos55 wrote:
There needs to be more awareness and opportunities for autistic people.
Given the prev comments though its clear that "acceptance" works both ways. Society needs to be kinder to those with all mental health issues, but we also need to accept that given our negative symptoms its hardly suprising that society, parents, medical community will try and change us.
The negative symptoms as you call them wouldn't be as disabling if the world was more accepting. To have to deal with people trying to change the way we were born on top of the unaccommodating environment is the issue.
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'Adaption to the environment isnt happening naturally, let's assist them to adapt'. Genius.
carlos55 wrote:
amity wrote:
The negative symptoms as you call them wouldn't be as disabling if the world was more accepting.
The word "accepting" is ambiguous, please explain outside of job opportunities and kindness from others, specifically what you mean? How would it help you live independently and function fully?
To get back to the topic, of not being superhuman and to respond to your question... I used the word accepting as a response to your usage of it in the quoted text. What is your definition? Does it stretch beyond kindness and job opportunities?
Mine is all encompassing, the ideal is to be equal, not othered and dehumanised, but en route to that utopia; to achieve the same accepted level of accomodations that those with a visible disability have unquestionably for the areas where they are truly not a superhuman.
That in the areas where we struggle we are helped in the way we need help and not in the way that others decide we need help.
ASD has so many nuances, the limited or one size fits all is good for budgets and simplistic understandings, but has a doubling down negative impact on people with a spectrum of variations within the expression of diagnostic criteria.
The environment creates barriers due to lack of acceptance, this status quo of lack of acceptance feeds the approaches of curing the observable diagnostic criteria, this creates more barriers caused by lack of nuanced approaches. A doubling down of something that does the opposite of helping in the first place.