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31 Mar 2025, 1:55 pm

From autism to anchor desk

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Leland Vittert — anchor of NewsNation's prime-time "On Balance" — will be out Sept. 30 with "Born Lucky: A Dedicated Father, A Grateful Son, and My Journey with Autism," chronicling his dad's role in coaching him from childhood struggles to the journalistic heights of war and political coverage.

"This book is about giving hope to tens of millions of parents whose kids are struggling every day — not just with autism and the spectrum, but ADHD, learning disabilities, anxiety, bullying and the difficulties of growing up," says Vittert, 42, whose childhood nickname was "Lucky."
"You or your kid don't have to be defined by a diagnosis ... And the experts aren't always right”

The backstory: Vittert, author of the newsletter "War Notes," showed early signs "of being autistic — a term rarely used at the time — struggling with social cues, communication, and behavioral norms," says the announcement from the publisher, Harper Horizon.

Vittert's father, Mark, sold his company "and began preparing Leland for the world. He became a full-time parent-coach, training Leland and teaching him the skills he needed to navigate in society."

"Simple concepts like eye contact, understanding humor, and instilling motivations had to be taught painstakingly."

In a YouTube book trailer, Vittert says from his anchor desk, the Capitol dome over his shoulder: "I'm living proof you don't have to be defined by your diagnosis. As a little boy, child psychologists told my parents I had what we now know as autism. ... I didn't talk until I was 3."

Vittert says that at a time when he had no friends and was called "weird," his dad "knew the world wouldn't change for me. He had to change me for the world."

When "Lucky" was 7, his dad had him doing 200 pushups a day to give the bullies a run for their money.

"I was unable to read social cues," Vittert recalls. "So he'd take me to dinner. And when I became too loud, or said something off rhythm — talked too much — he would casually sit there and tap his watch. That was my signal to stop talking. And later we would postgame what I had missed."


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Yesterday, 12:15 pm

Oh, Oh, I just learned of this book. I have not been on this forum for awhile and just the preview for this book scares me.

First thing Leland says is "My dad knew the world would not change for me so he had to change me for the world" I know where this is going.

To be truthful I am glad his father was not my father, if he had been I would be more of an emotional wreck than I am already. There is a difference too, my father, like most, had to work he did not have a business to sell so he can spend all his time "changing" me

How is Leland not a "crying wreck"?

200 push ups will not make autism go away. If the art teacher told an NT kid he was as ugly as his dog's ass would his father take him out of the class?

If Leland was NT, would his father in essence tell him to shut up by pointing to his watch?

Why should a school principal tell a parent their son is "weird" would they tell that to someone NT?

Please say something here, just reading the preview is disturbing me.



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Yesterday, 2:35 pm

If his father's strategy "the world would not change for me so he had to change me for the world" worked, then good for him. But for many people it would have been a disaster.


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