slowmutant wrote:
I wonder if this stuff really works ...
No, it doesn't, and it's been proven time and time again, scientifically, that it doesn't. Parents who just can't handle any differences in their little darlings and who can't accept that autism is not possession by the devil just can't accept that. Screw them. Not only wasting their money, but possibly permanently damaging their child in the process.
My AS son's idiot father and his girlfriend (now wife) wanted to try that on him, never mind that they never saw him anyway and, when they did, all they did was yell and scream at him even though I'd told them over and over, ad nauseum, that such most certainly does NOT work with him. In fact, it only makes him worse. But did they ever listen to my counsel on how to best handle him and the behaviors that work best with him and will likely make him understand and behave at his best, or, at least, what was best possible for him under the circumstances? NO, NEVER. And they expected ME to pay for this snake oil damage, too. Screw that and screw them. He does much better when he doesn't see them.
What it gets down to are parents who not only don't want and can't accept any differences in their children, but whose sense of social "advancement" and worry over what people will think overrides any good sense as to what's really best for their children; parents who don't want to put in the hard work of learning the right behaviors to deal with and help their children. If they really cared about their children, they wouldn't put them through such a possibly damaging treatment that has no scientific basis in fact anyway.
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