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02 Jun 2014, 1:24 pm

i think about a girl I know who I don't see that often, and I just can't ejaculate. Something just doesn't feel right. I don't know if its the pillow I'm using.



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02 Jun 2014, 1:31 pm

Maybe you're just too young. Nothing wrong with that. It'll come (no pun intended)



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02 Jun 2014, 2:00 pm

But I'm 15!



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02 Jun 2014, 2:55 pm

You need to ask your doctor about this.

At your age that could be the result of one of your testicles not 'dropping' and its interfering with the plumbing.
It could be any medication you're taking.
Could be you're quite dehydrated.
... or the reservoir is empty.



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02 Jun 2014, 3:57 pm

do you reach climax? climax without ejaculation can mean that a valve isn't working (usually due to diabetes) or some of the things mentioned above. not climaxing could be psychological or due to meds, especially SSRI's or certain antipsychotics.



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02 Jun 2014, 4:22 pm

Invest in some Astroglide.



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02 Jun 2014, 8:02 pm

Are you on an antidepressant? That may have something to do with it.

I can't believe that at one time, I thought Astroglide was something used on the space shuttle!



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03 Jun 2014, 1:43 am

MonsterGuy wrote:
i think about a girl I know who I don't see that often, and I just can't ejaculate. Something just doesn't feel right. I don't know if its the pillow I'm using.


Is this your first time milking the lizard? I had trouble with it my first time because I didn't know what to expect. Try going into the shower and use some olive oil for lubrication and just take your time with it. You will need to go through a few felling before you hit orgasm and ejaculate and it could easily be one of those felling grossing you out along the way and that can cause you to abort before orgasm. I will warn you about one thing. If you never experienced an orgasm before and finally reach it. It will be a very very scary experience but after that, having an orgasm will be a wonderful felling.



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03 Jun 2014, 6:50 pm

MonsterGuy wrote:
i think about a girl I know who I don't see that often, and I just can't ejaculate. Something just doesn't feel right. I don't know if its the pillow I'm using.


Is it the nine year old you have feelings for? Maybe you are not sexually attracted to her so you won't ejaculate because of it? Think of something else that will turn you on and then it will happen.


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04 Jun 2014, 4:20 pm

LupaLuna wrote:
MonsterGuy wrote:
i think about a girl I know who I don't see that often, and I just can't ejaculate. Something just doesn't feel right. I don't know if its the pillow I'm using.


Is this your first time milking the lizard? I had trouble with it my first time because I didn't know what to expect. Try going into the shower and use some olive oil for lubrication and just take your time with it. You will need to go through a few felling before you hit orgasm and ejaculate and it could easily be one of those felling grossing you out along the way and that can cause you to abort before orgasm. I will warn you about one thing. If you never experienced an orgasm before and finally reach it. It will be a very very scary experience but after that, having an orgasm will be a wonderful felling.


Makes me think of the first time really doing that. It was a crazy mind blowing feeling when that first went off. lol



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06 Jun 2014, 6:31 pm

VIDEODROME wrote:
LupaLuna wrote:
MonsterGuy wrote:
i think about a girl I know who I don't see that often, and I just can't ejaculate. Something just doesn't feel right. I don't know if its the pillow I'm using.


Is this your first time milking the lizard? I had trouble with it my first time because I didn't know what to expect. Try going into the shower and use some olive oil for lubrication and just take your time with it. You will need to go through a few felling before you hit orgasm and ejaculate and it could easily be one of those felling grossing you out along the way and that can cause you to abort before orgasm. I will warn you about one thing. If you never experienced an orgasm before and finally reach it. It will be a very very scary experience but after that, having an orgasm will be a wonderful felling.


Makes me think of the first time really doing that. It was a crazy mind blowing feeling when that first went off. lol


Please don't mess up all of the pillows, the best thing to use is probably a SPEEDO!!



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06 Jun 2014, 7:32 pm

First time, I just wanked in the shower.

Otherwise, you can just keep a wad of toilet paper to catch the payload and then dump it in the toilet.



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15 Jun 2014, 11:39 pm

Why is this in the Health Sports forum? Is w*king an endurance sport now?



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16 Jun 2014, 7:46 am

Normally, I would suggest putting this type of questions in the "adult autism issues " but as you have 15, so that could be the problem :D



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16 Jun 2014, 8:56 am

pawelk1986 wrote:
Normally, I would suggest putting this type of questions in the "adult autism issues " but as you have 15, so that could be the problem :D


I'd have to agree with you. I wonder why none of the moderators haven't done this already?



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16 Jun 2014, 10:56 am

LupaLuna wrote:
pawelk1986 wrote:
Normally, I would suggest putting this type of questions in the "adult autism issues " but as you have 15, so that could be the problem :D


I'd have to agree with you. I wonder why none of the moderators haven't done this already?



But I'm not for deleting this messages, just the subject matter is quite awkward. Many boys as men are concerned for their dearest treasure :D

I also had these questions in this age, the boys ask about ejaculations and girls about menstruation, it is perfectly normal. But such of these questions better to go to the school doctor or primary care physician, preferably a pediatrician. I'm sure that the presence of the parents will not be necessary, in the end he have 15 years, or for three years he will be an adult, and in two years he will be able to use the "Adult autism section" :D