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25 Dec 2018, 5:54 pm

What in your opinion makes a body ‘unattractive’?



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25 Dec 2018, 6:02 pm

If it hasn't a personality or a mind - you might say soul - behind it; by that standard, most supermodels and celebrities are thoroughly unattractive, and I'd completely agree.



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25 Dec 2018, 7:46 pm

Jamesy wrote:
What in your opinion makes a body 'unattractive'?
Obesity, deformity, disfigurement, scarring, rashes, spasms, clumsiness, abnormal thinness, blemishes, tattoos and piercings.



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25 Dec 2018, 8:08 pm

Fnord wrote:
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What in your opinion makes a body 'unattractive'?
Obesity, deformity, disfigurement, scarring, rashes, spasms, clumsiness, abnormal thinness, blemishes, tattoos and piercings.




I didn’t think body included the ‘face’



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25 Dec 2018, 8:12 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
What in your opinion makes a body 'unattractive'?
Obesity, deformity, disfigurement, scarring, rashes, spasms, clumsiness, abnormal thinness, blemishes, tattoos and piercings.
I didn’t think body included the ‘face’.
Who said anything about the face? You said 'body', and that's the context in which I answered.

Although being attracted only to the body without consideration for the face and limbs is just plain weird.



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25 Dec 2018, 8:15 pm

Fnord wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
What in your opinion makes a body 'unattractive'?
Obesity, deformity, disfigurement, scarring, rashes, spasms, clumsiness, abnormal thinness, blemishes, tattoos and piercings.
I didn’t think body included the ‘face’.
Who said anything about the face? You said 'body', and that's the context in which I answered.

Although being attracted only to the body without consideration for the face and limbs is just plain weird.



Oh sorry I think I misunderstood your reply too my question



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01 Jan 2019, 5:28 am

Most people can be attractive to me if they have the right personality/intelligence mix. I guess except really old guys, no thanks.



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19 Feb 2019, 2:34 am

Too fat, obesity, too thin, anorexic are normally considered not attractive, or ugly. This is society or cultural norm,

Healthy bodies are normally also Attractive bodies.

Most people are naturally drawn to people’s beauty or good looks, which usually comes from a healthy body.

Naturally, we judge people first by what we can see on the surface. Of course there is also factor of internal health condition inside the body, which we can’t see. And a persons mental-emotional health which we will discover after talking to the person more and getting to know them.

But in the beginning, as a basis, external physical appearance is a major part of what we think about others.



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19 Feb 2019, 10:25 am

Jamesy wrote:
What in your opinion makes a body 'unattractive'?
Excess weight / obesity.
Skin lesions (i.e., pimples, rashes, scars, sores, et cetera).
Deformed / missing limbs, teeth, and other body parts.
Tattoos and piercings (other than for 1 pair of earrings).
Paralysis.
Jerky movements and tremors.
Emaciation.
The aroma of feces or urine.
Over-developed musculature.



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19 Feb 2019, 10:31 am

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What in your opinion makes a body ‘unattractive’?

Lack of a soul (or whatever you call it) inside.
Like, being dead.


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19 Feb 2019, 12:46 pm

I guess it kind of depends on which culture one would live in


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09 Jul 2019, 8:46 pm

Being out of shape.



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14 Jul 2019, 12:00 pm

- Masculine fat distribution
- Too fat or too skinny. Being somewhat slim or somewhat chubby is OK; I don't care about that
- Too much muscle
- Armpit and leg hair
- Too few curves (no breasts, no ass, etc.)
- Sagging skin


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14 Jul 2019, 1:00 pm

Odour


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14 Jul 2019, 5:44 pm

infidelity
dishonesty
sadism
nastiness
arrogance
slander

(i.e. my ex-wife... lol).

these are attributes that cause me to think a person is unattractive
more than any physical attribute

i.e. is someone is a cu@t, they are by very nature more unattractive than any physical
attribute

although personally speaking, there are some variations of the physical anatomy that I innately find unattractive
if i were to be brutally and bluntly honest with you.

I do find pure natural slim young woman generally very beautiful.
And in many cases many of such young beautiful woman who have this physical beauty, are completely ignorant to how beautiful they are, as i was ignorant to how good looking i was when i was in my late teens. Which were wasted on "love".

Interestingly, physical beauty is not everything, as mentioned at the beginning, a persons personality attributes
also can play a major factor as to how attractive a person is, but not only attractiveness but also increase a persons
potential to find partners due to other well formed aspects of a persons personality that includes experience and spotting an opportunity.

Please note, i believe there is no single rule that covers all when it comes to attractiveness
what works for one does not work for others
so the advice on here may work for them in particular but no one else apart from people who are exactly the same
if you ever find people who are exactly the same

good luck



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17 Jul 2019, 12:15 pm

Short legs and longish torso is also not attractive