aspiemike wrote:
What kind of side effects did birth control pills have on women anyway?
I'm not sure if you're joking, so forgive me if you are and I'm giving a serious answer here, but it varies by the formulation and individual woman. There can be both psychiatric (depression, anxiety, panic attacks, etc.) and physical side effects that can range from relatively mild (like headaches, nausea, hair loss or weight gain) to severe (like strokes or pulmonary embolisms).
The serious side effects, like blood clots, are statistically far less likely to occur while taking the pill than during pregnancy, though. But, still, while many women take the pill safely for both contraceptive and non-contraceptive reasons, some women have also lost their lives from taking oral contraceptives. And, non-hormonal methods have their own drawbacks. For example, the copper IUD can cause anemia from heavy bleeding or severe pelvic pain.
So, I totally support the idea of men sharing some of the burden associated with contraception. At least, in principal, anyway. In all honesty, the thought of relying on a partner to take on this responsibility sort of scares the s@$t out of me.