Izzy_Dolphin wrote:
I did gymnastics (on a team) for 12 years and loved it, because I could support my teammates, but whatever we all did was individual and one person couldn't change how another person (or the "team") did, because we never competed for a team prize, just individual prizes.
howzat wrote:
Well i have been playing cricket since i was 14 and i enjoy every minute of the game given that i was the only aspie in the club.
Well, it does seem that at least some people have had some good experiences with sports. For me it was a mixed bag.
legionsdad wrote:
I played football in 9th grade, and wresling for 4 calender years. I was the best at my school. Still had no friends.
This is similar to my experience with basketball.
willa wrote:
I never really had much interest in playing at a college level in a big conference, it's a huge dedication and the chances of being one of the extreme few who are good enough to go pro is so slim it's not worth it. So I never went back to playing.
That's why I went to a DIII college and lost interest even though with enough practice I might have had a chance to go pro.
JerryHatake wrote:
Special Olympics team sports for me. I am quite a team player since I have leadership skills but I am a motivator for my teammates. With Mason Special Olympics, everyone see me as the team leader but someone who can make plays work with teamwork. Though the team usually gives me the ball in basketball but I will passed the ball around to make plays for my teammates to score.
Sounds a little different than my experience with basketball. My teams were really focused on competition and winning was most important. Everyone on the team had a team role. There was an individualistic element to that. One good way to think about it is to think of the team as a gigantic bomber plane. That plane would take several people all doing their jobs to be operated correctly. I would learn my teammates playing strengths in practice so that I would know where to pass them the ball or if I was in position to score to take it myself. One of my team roles was to be the motivator, though. If there was a chance of me being able to to streak towards the basket my teammates were supposed to get me the ball so I could attempt a flashy dunk that would motivate the team and spark a run, even at the expense of picking up a technical foul. I was the showboat.
Saspie wrote:
I was truly AWFUL at tennis - one team I filled in for was the little kids' team (I was about 15 and they were 10) and they totally destroyed me
My 10-year old doubles partner would say "what is wrong with you??" Quite funny in hindsight. Both my grandmother and sister have been state tennis champions! Clearly I missed out on the tennis gene
I have two former state champions at tennis in my family and I stink at tennis.
princesseli wrote:
I was on the swim team for 4 years in highschool. I wasnt very fast but it was a really good experiance for me to in learning how to stay in shape and it helped give me a start in learning how to socialize with other people. I worked really hard to become a decent swimmer, I had to work harder then most people but it was soo worth it. I cant imagine my life today if I was never on the swim team all those years.
This mirrors the best part of the sports experience for me, too. I'd be overweight and far more shy had I not been almost forced into basketball.
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