What's a martial art with the least possible contact?

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30 Jun 2011, 12:09 pm

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Maybe we have a different definition of self-defence. Grappling is great if you are pitted in a 1 on 1 situation. It becomes next to useless if you face multiple opponents, or if someone has a bladed kind of weaponry. Without making this a style war, but BJJ did not defeat any style. It was a human who beat another human. You cannot pit a style against another style, only a human against a human. UFC has nothing to do with a real self-defence situation, it is a sport. While I agree that many schools that teach grappling styles tend to focus on competition aspects more than on self defence, it is because it is more a sport than a self-defence art. As for Kyokushin, I totally agree, it lacks defense against high punches, and it is something you have to make up for yourself. I recommended Karate in the first place because it does not involve too much phsyical contact. That said, you can only go so far simulating that. Putting gloves on your hands, whole different situation. You could go back to bare-knuckle boxing, but I guess you would not have that much fun simulating realistic situations.
If you really want to be able to defend yourself, you need to practice multiple styles, anyway. If you wanna bring UFC into it, there is a reason to it why almost all contestants train both striking and grappling. You can count me in on the people that feel that their self-defence capabilities has improved by training BJJ, no question, but just as an addition to what I already knew, not standalone. I am sure that grappling expertise helped you when working as a bouncer. I never did, but owed to the nature of our hobby, I know alot of people who do work in law enforcement or security, and the same holds true for almost any style. If you gathered enough expertise, it will empower you.


I don't know why people keep saying that grappling is useless against multiple opponents. A high level judoka I used to work with immobilised two people attacking him by hip throwing one of them and pinning him with his knee, while reverse headlocking the second one. Furthermore, there's a video out there of a former UFC fighter slamming a couple of security guards to the pavement, ending the fight instantly with just grappling.

As for defending against knives... no martial art can teach you that. Tomiki Aikido (full contact Aikido) fighters practice this day in and day out with color markers, and they end up looking like candy wrappers at the end of a training session. From what I've seen, the only thing that somewhat works is overhooking the arm with the knife and taking down your opponent, or grabbing the wrist while pulling back your opponent and hyperextending his arm across you chest. Incidently, these are grappling solutions. Getting into a fistfight with a knife wielding attacker is just far too risky.

The UFC may be a sport (MMA would be the sport, actually), but surely you don't doubt that UFC fighters are more than capable of defending themselves against anyone who would be foolish enough to try anything? Why can't you pit styles against each other? If the technique from one style continuously beats the techniques of those from another style, it's safe to say that style is better. BJJers win their fights against other styles with a variety of chokes and submissions. That would suggest the BJJ style is very effective. On the other hand, Boxing's curriculum for example, punching, seems far less effective against BJJs moveset than the other way around. Pure style matchups such as Royce Gracie vs Art Jimmerson have proven this. Royce was a skinny BJJ guy beating a far bigger, far more athletic WBC top 15 ranked boxer in a no-rules contest. Had they both been untrained, Jimmerson would have crushed Gracie. The style is what won it for him. He'll tell you that himself.

People tend to make a big deal of the rules in MMA, but they aren't that influential in the outcome of the fight. So called 'dirty tricks' like eye gouging and biting hurt, but they don't incapacitate the opponent. A classic example of this is the fight in a Japanese tournament between Yukie Nakai and Gerard Gordeau. Gordeau eye gouged Nakai to the point where Nakai was permanently blinded in one eye, but he still won the fight because he had a superior positional advantage and made Gordeau tap out. Gordeau also bit Royce Gracie in their fight in the very first UFC, but he got choked out anyway. Again, superior positioning by the other fighter.

Lastly, I disagree that any style will make you a better fighter. Six years of Shotokan Karate have done absolutely nothing for me. It will build confidence for those who don't question the lacking training methods, but that is just false confidence. In fact, bad styles can make you lose fights you would have won if you were untrained. Example: you might try to apply a fancy wrist lock on a non-compliant opponent who then knocks you out, whereas if you'd just swung for the fences you might've knocked him out instead.

I feel like this post is probably wasted on the people reading it, as those who agree will already know all of the above and those who disagree will not be swayed anyway. Therefor I will now politely bow out of this discussion.



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30 Jun 2011, 7:19 pm

Tai Chi.

I think you can still both have an instructor who will teach you fighting style and keep partner on partner work for illustrating/understanding certain movements to the minimum of what you need to form it right in the air. The 24 form will likely only take you a few months, once you have that you already know the 48 form, the 108 I don't know but I'm sure that'll take a few minutes longer. I know they also have a 32 sword and possibly some other weapons as well?

Try it, you might like it but - I would still avoid finding someone who's strictly teaching it for health of the elderly or, at the other extreme, someone who has you scooping to the ground with your stances. Practical is in the middle and the motions are flowy and beautiful but - you'll see a strength and assertiveness behind them where you'll be able to tell that they could be turned into real business in short order.


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30 Jun 2011, 7:26 pm

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T'ai chi is considered a martial art, it is very good for posture and balance.


Yeah but I want to kick some scumbag butt, not relax my body.....

Ooops, didn't see this part.

Yeah, I think what you're asking for is an oxymoron - a strong/practical martial art without lots of partner contact. Then again, when you say 'contact' I take this as literally meaning touch - ie. you don't want two-man drills where you're doing things like.... I don't know... sensitivity drills, trappings, chi-sow, takedowns, sumbradas, siniwalis, guntings (limb destruction), lankas, sectoring, etc..

The problem with that though - without partner interplay and being able to repeatedly test and improve your ability to manipulate and/or break down another person's body and guard, you really might as well just do Zoomba or Jazzercise. You'll have something that will look cute and flowery and, sadly, any even reasonably good brawler will drop you in a second. My advice - don't pay someone a dime for that kind of 'education'.


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30 Jun 2011, 8:03 pm

Aikido. But if you can't handle the inconvenience of close contact, how are you gonna be able to handle the stress of a real confrontation? You should get your priorities straight because you can't have your cake and eat it too. Either go for a heavy hitting style or risk being ill prepared for when the SHTF.



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30 Jun 2011, 9:18 pm

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Aikido. But if you can't handle the inconvenience of close contact, how are you gonna be able to handle the stress of a real confrontation? You should get your priorities straight because you can't have your cake and eat it too. Either go for a heavy hitting style or risk being ill prepared for when the SHTF.


Well I did Judo and couldn't stand people's foul breath and sweat, I had nothing against wrestling with sweaty women lol but sweaty men ewww, no thanks. I know I know... What about Krav Maga? But I guess you have to be Jewish to be allowed to do this sport or so I heard that instructors won't teach non-jews... I'm not Jewish, would they teach me?


And to those saying "Buy a gun" in my country guns are illegal, you can't even carry a Butterknife or pepper spray. yeah even Pepperspray is illegal.



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01 Jul 2011, 6:12 pm

As an adjunct, if you're willing to go the weapons route to avoid the sweaty man-hugging aspect of things you could always try Arnis:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IQltqe2FFcE&playnext=1&list=PL900D6981782AF8CF[/youtube]


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02 Jul 2011, 8:15 am

OldFashioned wrote:
AceOfSpades wrote:
Aikido. But if you can't handle the inconvenience of close contact, how are you gonna be able to handle the stress of a real confrontation? You should get your priorities straight because you can't have your cake and eat it too. Either go for a heavy hitting style or risk being ill prepared for when the SHTF.


Well I did Judo and couldn't stand people's foul breath and sweat, I had nothing against wrestling with sweaty women lol but sweaty men ewww, no thanks. I know I know... What about Krav Maga? But I guess you have to be Jewish to be allowed to do this sport or so I heard that instructors won't teach non-jews... I'm not Jewish, would they teach me?


And to those saying "Buy a gun" in my country guns are illegal, you can't even carry a Butterknife or pepper spray. yeah even Pepperspray is illegal.
Krav Maga's a good choice but it has become commercialized and watered down like all the other martial arts so make sure the place you're checking out hasn't been. Don't buy into the "You'll become ready to defend yourself in 4 months!" crap because it takes years to ingrain techniques into your muscle memory. lol grappling with sweaty men sucks but seriously you need to be trained in close contact otherwise you will not be well prepared for when a confrontation comes up. Boxing style punches are universal too so if you want to be able to kick some ass then you're gonna have to get it over with. If it is really that bad then you should get some help for it. Another thing you should consider is if your place teaches de-escalation and how to avoid a fight.

If it was legal you should also carry a gun but that doesn't make martial arts useless since self defense in the eyes of the law must be applied with appropriate force meaning you can't pull a gun out on someone unless your life is in danger.



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02 Jul 2011, 1:16 pm

One last addition I'd like to make: weapons are obviously great for self-defence, but hand-to-hand skills should not be neglected.

A weapon can break, jam, get lost, or be taken away and used against you. Never mind the fact that pulling a weapon will almost certainly escalate a situation that otherwise might've been resolved peacefully. If you entrust your life to a weapon and you've got no unarmed combat skills to fall back on, Murphy's Law might not be kind to you.



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02 Jul 2011, 1:22 pm

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A weapon can break, jam, get lost, or be taken away and used against you. Never mind the fact that pulling a weapon will almost certainly escalate a situation that otherwise might've been resolved peacefully. If you entrust your life to a weapon and you've got no unarmed combat skills to fall back on, Murphy's Law might not be kind to you.

This tends to happen a lot with people who strictly train Kali or Silat with knife (which the legal system in this day and age - its weird). They don't know anything about hand to hand, they pull knife immediately and its off to jail they go, for life often enough.

If he started weapons first he might have some time to get over his touch and sweat thing enough to get to empty hands, regardless though he has to have it otherwise he might as well follow Moog's suggestion or have a can of pepper spray on him (which is worthless if someone's within ten feet of you and goes aggressive, you simply won't have enough time).


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