Tsiiki wrote:
I have tried that, type to sit there crosslegged (lotus isn't comfortable for me), straight posture and would go through a routine of counting to 10 then back at 1 so don't "keep track" for 5 minutes (was gonna work way up, but started getting anxiety attacks during), what are the other methods like?
Yeah, sitting doesn't work for a lot of people. I think the walking meditation might work for you. Here's what it [almost] looks like...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cO8N75uJiCABasically, you take one of those tiny steps for each breath: inhale=lift foot, move forward; exhale=lower foot, shift weight onto it. In Soto Zen we hold the hands more softly, at a more comfortable height w/the palms facing the body, rather than the floor. The eyes are open w/a soft gaze.
Again, just try 5 or 10 minutes to start, gently returning your attention to the sensation of your feet on the floor when it wanders away.
There are some adjustments that can be made...if the hand position feels too intense, try joining your hands behind you. This also opens up the chest a bit more, making us more upright...posture shapes mind as much as mind shapes posture.
And stay away from doors...
Learning how to handle frustration is a huge part of this practice. Being patient as the mind repeatedly wanders off the meditation object...the sensation of your feet meeting the floor. Failing over & over & trying again. So simple, so gentle, & so helpful!
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Find a healthy thing & do it. For me a protein shake or smoothie would work. Quick, easy, & can be a real powerhouse of nutrition. Also, assume you're not getting enough sunlight & get your Vit. D levels tested. Strong evidence linking low levels w/depression, etc.
Actually have and been on a few vitamin D regiments to bring up lvl, it's finally up to "good" levels now
And how different is a protien shake to a daily multivitamin?
Usually I add lots of fruit to the protein powder, & many protein shakes are also made of more whole foods than a compressed little tablet full of non-bio-available chemicals. I'm planning on working up a veggie smoothie, to get more vegetables into my system.
As for those evil 'talking' potato chip bags (I know them well)...just don't bring them home. That's the best I've been able to do. Honest, they don't need a home. That's just spin.
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I see this as another try at quick when slow & steady wins the race for you. It's about avoiding pain, making the exercise pleasurable, fun. For you, I think the old adage "No pain, no gain" is a sinker. Assume pain is telling you that you got it WRONG for you. That adage is for people who have a higher pain tolerance or stronger endorphin releases or something. Not for you, I'm thinking.
Or me. If it's fun, I'll do it. If it's not fun, I won't. Simple as that.
Doi! XD You're right *sulk*
Thinking of getting this:
http://www.amazon.com/Fitbit-Wireless-A ... ss+trackerOverall ratings aren't the best, but read a good review about that a few weeks ago, and some've the reviews seem like its fit for me (besides, interested in sleep thing), because data!
Until then, I do have a pedometer that I was trying to keep track of... if I just sneak in some more movement to slowly step it up...
I can't just go to the gym today, because I'll immediately start doing the bad and overdo it, so I'll try by like increasing it at a gradual incline for number of steps til healthier
Good Call!! ! Very good & you get a high five!
I didn't check out the link, I'll just take your word for it. I think those things are a good motivator. I've heard good things about the Jawbone, too. I think it also does the sleep cycle.
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Sorry if I keep seeming like I'm naysaying, really am listening .__.
Also thank you, you guys have some good advice
It hasn't felt like naysaying to me, just giving us your specifics.
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