I'm all in favor of paying attention energy levels and/or mood swings, which I think all people have to some extent, just a question of how much.
As far as social skills, I think a lot of it is being present in a sloppy, middle-of-the-road fashion. And also being prepared to reciprocate.
I remember listening to this psychologist who was trying to help someone with social anxiety. This client's assignment was to go into a coffee bar, order a cup of coffee, and try to make conversation with the person next to her. Well, what if this person isn't in a talkative frame of mind or thinks you're trying to sell multi-level marketing! Meaning, a lot depends on the other person, too.
What I'm trying to say is that a lot of the advice psychologists give about social skills is just plain crap.
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