animallover wrote:
I've heard different explanations of this phenomona #1) that people who get all huffy with you about vegetarianism feel guilty - the idea being that they have actually thought about the issue and have rejected it for some reason and have to defend that - and you, as a vegetarian, make it hard for them to use whatever excuse they have come up with or #2) (and I think this is more likely, really) that people are bothered by anything different and defend against that . . .
I think those two reasons are just a general and a specific example of the same phenonemon. Take religious intolerance as another example, the pious types making the most noise, striving to either convert or demonize everyone are, deep down the most frightened and insecure. Its much easier to project that self doubt onto someone else and demonize them than do a bit of soul-searching and risk having to make difficult lifestyle changes.
I used to let them pester me at school and hated it, being (then) completely non-confrontational, if it happenned now id probably find it amusing. I find it curious that something as innocuous as my dietary choices can make another person feel so threatened and insecure. Then the whole sorry 'debate' inevitably unfolds for the hundredth time as the moral dialogue is played out between the meat-eater and their veggie conscience, often with hilariously dumb variants on the famed 'desert-island rationalization' and other pathetic cliches