auntblabby wrote:
after my mishap last month, i'm too chicken to get back on one.
When my son was learning to ride, the bike shop guy recommended removing the pedals and chain first. Then he could just sit on the saddle and push himself with his feet. He got his balance v. quickly, and then learned to ride in a short while, once we put the pedals and chain on again. It might be a bit odd for an adult, but if you didn't mind that, it might help a lot.
When I learned cycling as a kid, my solution was to only try to ride for one turn of the pedals and then stop. I kept on doing only that much until I felt I had better balance, and only then risked going further. Hope you try it again, good luck!