04 Jul 2019, 8:01 pm
I've been looking up information about what causes men to have boners, and I can't believe I can't find any information about anyone who can get aroused through images, but without actually thinking about sex. I've read about several different types of male heterosexuallity:
1) What people consider "normal." Seeing naked women, makes them fantasize about having sex with the woman, which causes them to get aroused. Never had a boner or attraction to nude women before learning what sex was.
2) Males who got boners pre-puberty but got non-visually stimulated, such as getting a boner when needing to pee, or their balls being itchy.
3) "Woke dudes" that used to see nudity as sexual, but now see it as art, and no longer get aroused because they no longer see nudity as sexual.
Now here's the kind of arousal system I have:
I've got boners by looking at artistically nude women BEFORE I knew what sex was. 
...and when I did first learn about sex, I thought it was the most disgusting thing in the world, but I STILL GOT BONERS LOOKING AT SCANTILY CLAD OR NUDE WOMEN.
Now here's the strangest part. I DON'T get a boner watching hardcore porn. I only get aroused with artistic nudity or softcore porn. I can't even tell the difference between artistic nudity and mild porn sometimes. Sometimes I hear explanations like "you get boners while looking at porn, that's the difference" except I get a boner either way. I've heard other explanations like "in porn, the boobs and/or butts are a couple milimeters bigger in porn" or "they exaggerate poses a little bit more in porn". 
