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06 Jun 2024, 9:30 am

I put a lof of effort into my physique by exercise and weight training. That being said at a house party recently when I took of my shirt of for a joke this 19 year lady covered her eyes.

Might her reaction be a sign that I am actually not in very good shape?



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06 Jun 2024, 9:37 am

It's probably because it's nasty when any man takes their shirt off in public, joke or not.


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06 Jun 2024, 9:42 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
It's probably because it's nasty when any man takes their shirt off in public, joke or not.



They told me to take my shirt of. They recorded it on there phones



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06 Jun 2024, 9:42 am

Sometimes people aren't comfortable with nudity from strangers, especially those in close proximity to them.

In the scenario you describe, it sounds like the person was uncomfortable with your partial nudity, and whether they found your body ugly or not is another question which we don't know the answer to.



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06 Jun 2024, 9:51 am

blitzkrieg wrote:
Sometimes people aren't comfortable with nudity from strangers, especially those in close proximity to them.

In the scenario you describe, it sounds like the person was uncomfortable with your partial nudity, and whether they found your body ugly or not is another question which we don't know the answer to.



What makes a body ugly in your opinion though? I have quite a hairy chest :lol:



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06 Jun 2024, 9:52 am

Jamesy wrote:
They told me to take my shirt of. They recorded it on there phones



A group of underaged girls once told you to expose yourself.
You obliged.
They caught that on their phones too.


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06 Jun 2024, 9:57 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
They told me to take my shirt of. They recorded it on there phones



A group of underaged girls once told you to expose yourself.
You obliged.
They caught that on their phones too.



It wasn’t underage girls it was some guys. There were 2 girls they but they didn’t look under age.

They virtually backed me into a corner to expose myself so I did not oblige



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06 Jun 2024, 10:01 am

It’s not a sign of anything.

She might’ve been embarrassed or uncomfortable. When someone does something like that to show off, it makes me uncomfortable no matter what their body looks like.

I also don’t like the double standards when it comes to gender.



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06 Jun 2024, 10:06 am

Jamesy wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
They told me to take my shirt of. They recorded it on there phones



A group of underaged girls once told you to expose yourself.
You obliged.
They caught that on their phones too.



It wasn’t underage girls it was some guys. There were 2 girls they but they didn’t look under age.

They virtually backed me into a corner to expose myself so I did not oblige



I just read your previous thread.
You said there were two girls who were 13, and you did expose yourself.
You were worried about jail time.

We recommended you keep your clothes on.

I think that applies now too.


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06 Jun 2024, 10:16 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
They told me to take my shirt of. They recorded it on there phones



A group of underaged girls once told you to expose yourself.
You obliged.
They caught that on their phones too.



It wasn’t underage girls it was some guys. There were 2 girls they but they didn’t look under age.

They virtually backed me into a corner to expose myself so I did not oblige



I just read your previous thread.
You said there were two girls who were 13, and you did expose yourself.
You were worried about jail time.

We recommended you keep your clothes on.

I think that applies now too.




I think the guy who recorded it probably made that up about girls being 13. To me they looked late teens/20s. Agreed though he might have spread false rumours about me exposing myself to 13 year olds


At the recently house party they bullied me into taking my shirt off



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06 Jun 2024, 10:24 am

How did you end up at that house party?


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06 Jun 2024, 10:31 am

honeytoast wrote:
How did you end up at that house party?



Well it wasn’t a house party really we just went there after the pub with some people to watch the Tyson Fury boxing match



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06 Jun 2024, 11:15 am

And then what happened after she covered her eyes


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06 Jun 2024, 11:22 am

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And then what happened after she covered her eyes



Can’t really remember. I think I just put my shirt back on lol



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06 Jun 2024, 11:32 am

I think her reaction meant that she was being a jerk, and so was everyone else. You shouldn't do things just because people tell you to do them. As an adult woman I would keep my shirt ON.



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06 Jun 2024, 11:38 am

lostonearth35 wrote:
I think her reaction meant that she was being a jerk, and so was everyone else. You shouldn't do things just because people tell you to do them. As an adult woman I would keep my shirt ON.



I did say no but they insisted.