ADD without meds.... how?
Hi everyone,
I have ADD (without H) and it affects every part of my life. I haven't been able to tolerate meds and was wondering if I could get some tips from someone who has successfully managed their ADD w/o meds.
I have explored the meds route thoroughly with doctors, so suggesting new meds won't really help me here. I need advice more along the lines of lifestyle. Too often I am becoming "frozen" and can't do anything, I'm so overwhelmed and riddled with anxiety, racing thoughts, etc. Those with ADD will know exactly what I'm talking about.
When I get medicaid, I will find a new doc, but that won't be for awhile as I've just applied.
Thank you in advance!
You mention experiencing anxiety. Anxiety can mimic ADD, and ADD meds tend to make anxiety worse. So I'm wondering if you've tried any medication for anxiety? Anti-depressants, for example, are often used to reduce anxiety. If it's anxiety impeding your ability to concentrate, that would explain you not responding to ADD meds.
Thanks for the info. I am on a benzodiazapene.
Moving around does help.
Nowadays I'm medicating with music and coffee. Caffeine, while exacerbating my anxiety, helps me focus. Music does everything for me as far as healing - it's the love of my life. On days when I can't focus enough to even cook lunch, I turn on music very loud and then I'm able to cook happily, for example. Being musically gifted has truly saved my life.
Moving around does help.
Nowadays I'm medicating with music and coffee. Caffeine, while exacerbating my anxiety, helps me focus. Music does everything for me as far as healing - it's the love of my life. On days when I can't focus enough to even cook lunch, I turn on music very loud and then I'm able to cook happily, for example. Being musically gifted has truly saved my life.
I do that too! That completely makes sense. I'm also kind of hyperactive so I talk to people too when I am feeling agitated. I try to stay away from drinking too much caffeine, alcohol and food, but I can't help but admit that those things help me focus.
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Thanks for the info. I am on a benzodiazapene.
Be careful with meds. I had ADHD as a kid & teen. I had the racing thoughts & some hyper but after spending 5 years on various psych meds due to a mental breakdown when I was 20 I no longer have the racing thoughts or get hyper. It's harder for me to focus now. It's like the H in ADHD went away & got replaced by the Attention Deficit getting worse
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Diet, exercise, and consistently doing productive things in short bursts tend to play a big role in improving your symptoms. I think Nootropics have been a large factor in improving my abilities to cope with the symptoms of ADD/ADHD. I recommend Phenylpiracetam for its energizing, motivating, and focus driven qualities.
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My doc and I decided to try Depakote. It is sometimes used to treat ADD and is the only psych med I could tolerate in the past. The reason I could tolerate it is because it's actually an anti seizure med and doesn't mess with serotonin levels in the brain. Until a few days ago, I had completely forgotten I was ever on Depakote. I didn't have a diagnosis of ADD back then (10 years ago), but I remember that "grounded" me in some way. I'm curious to find out if it actually helped with ADD symptoms. It's worth a try!
If anyone is interested, I'll let you know how this treatment goes for me. It will take a month or more for me to really know, of course.
Thanks everyone for your responses!
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Eg. work for 1 hour, run for 20 minutes, do the dishes for 15 minutes, work for another 30 minutes. Do everything in short bursts.
My diagnoses are AS and depersonalization. I've come to realize I also have lots of either ADD or ADHD things.
I agree with the short bursts. This far that has worked almost like magic in my case. Keeping things really small. It seems projects can't get too small for me.
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My primary diagnosis is ADHD along with AS traits. I went on Adderall, Ritalin, etc. when I was seven. I hated it. It made me feel zombified. Aside from stuff I'd buy off of my coworkers from time to time in the past, I've sworn off of them completely. As an adult, they were a little more helpful. Instead of getting distracted by every shiny thing, I would have all of my natural mental energy focused on whatever it was I was trying to accomplish, and accomplish I did, but mentally, it made me feel empty. Just workworkworkworkwork no thinking workworkworkmore.
I can't help but wonder what lunacy inspires doctor to give children speed.
Anyway, these days the main way I handle it is by not handling it, and guess what? I've accomplished quite a lot. I'll work for a bit, the go explore the street a mile up from house, come back, surf the net, work more, monologue the cat, make tea, work more. I'm a mental sprinter. In short bursts, I can produce a lot of good work, spread throughout the day. It's harder to maintain when I'm stuck at work for an eight hour shift, but while I'm in school, it's a great tactic.
One thing I will never do is what my psychologist recommended... excessive structure. Daily planners, adhering to a specific schedule, planning everything, never allowing room for randomness... this drives me insane. I feel like psychologists are trying to make people with ADHD conform to a world that was designed by people with the opposite mindset. They're trying to fit an abstract sculpture into a round hole. It's destined not to work. I've tried living a sedentary, hyperorganized life, and it's just made me fat, alcoholic and depressed.
In the long term, I think the most important thing is to pick a job with loose structure, varied tasks, and always something new going on. Medicine is one, or entrepreneurship, or journalism, or long-haul trucking, or embassy work. For me, what will help is to never be doing the same thing in the same place for very long.
I can't help but wonder what lunacy inspires doctor to give children speed.
Anyway, these days the main way I handle it is by not handling it, and guess what? I've accomplished quite a lot. I'll work for a bit, the go explore the street a mile up from house, come back, surf the net, work more, monologue the cat, make tea, work more. I'm a mental sprinter. In short bursts, I can produce a lot of good work, spread throughout the day. It's harder to maintain when I'm stuck at work for an eight hour shift, but while I'm in school, it's a great tactic.
One thing I will never do is what my psychologist recommended... excessive structure. Daily planners, adhering to a specific schedule, planning everything, never allowing room for randomness... this drives me insane. I feel like psychologists are trying to make people with ADHD conform to a world that was designed by people with the opposite mindset. They're trying to fit an abstract sculpture into a round hole. It's destined not to work. I've tried living a sedentary, hyperorganized life, and it's just made me fat, alcoholic and depressed.
In the long term, I think the most important thing is to pick a job with loose structure, varied tasks, and always something new going on. Medicine is one, or entrepreneurship, or journalism, or long-haul trucking, or embassy work. For me, what will help is to never be doing the same thing in the same place for very long.
After I get some health issues taken care of, I'm going back to uni to get a second degree, this time is music. Music is my number one talent and the only thing in this world that "reins in my mind". I've given up on trying to do anything that is not meant for my brain.
I applaud that. Talent and passion should be encouraged, nurtured. Too often, I feel that the schools drain it out of us instead. I'm a writer, by nature. It may not always show in my posts, mostly because I tend to rush them and don't bother to proofread, but in my time I've produced some fantastic pieces, both creative and journalistic. When I write, I'm a different person, calmer, more focused, less agitated. It's like meditation. I've wanted to write for a living since I was a small child. Yet, when I put voice to this ambition, both my teachers and parents seemed to rally in a united front against me. "There's no money in it." they said. "It's not secure." they said. "The likelihood of you producing a work worthy of publishing is about the same as winning the lottery." Whatever they said, the unifying theme was "You can't do it." Why not? It wasn't until I was in twelfth grade, when I had a teacher who was passionate about literature who encouraged my talent that I began to think otherwise. To this day, however, I still doubt. I change my major, then I change it back, then I change it again, because I doubt whether I can hack it as a writer.
The thing for people with ADHD... that one thing that calms your mind, soothes you, "reins in your mind," as you said... that's what you were meant to do. You may never get rich. You may just. You might just end up as a session musician or a music teacher. Whatever. If it makes you happy, go for it. Don't let anybody tell you different.
I applaud that. Talent and passion should be encouraged, nurtured. Too often, I feel that the schools drain it out of us instead. I'm a writer, by nature. It may not always show in my posts, mostly because I tend to rush them and don't bother to proofread, but in my time I've produced some fantastic pieces, both creative and journalistic. When I write, I'm a different person, calmer, more focused, less agitated. It's like meditation. I've wanted to write for a living since I was a small child. Yet, when I put voice to this ambition, both my teachers and parents seemed to rally in a united front against me. "There's no money in it." they said. "It's not secure." they said. "The likelihood of you producing a work worthy of publishing is about the same as winning the lottery." Whatever they said, the unifying theme was "You can't do it." Why not? It wasn't until I was in twelfth grade, when I had a teacher who was passionate about literature who encouraged my talent that I began to think otherwise. To this day, however, I still doubt. I change my major, then I change it back, then I change it again, because I doubt whether I can hack it as a writer.
The thing for people with ADHD... that one thing that calms your mind, soothes you, "reins in your mind," as you said... that's what you were meant to do. You may never get rich. You may just. You might just end up as a session musician or a music teacher. Whatever. If it makes you happy, go for it. Don't let anybody tell you different.
You're absolutely right. I encountered much of the same discouragement as you, too. In college, I changed majors 5 times, all the while knowing what I really wanted to do, but convinced I had to get a technical degree in order to make money. People also told me that since I'm "smart enough" for engineering or what-not, anything else was stupid and a waste. Well, the six years I spent in Uni wasn't completely a waste, but I should have done what I wanted.
I truly hope you are able to achieve not only happiness and peace with your writing, but some revenue as well.

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I can't help but wonder what lunacy inspires doctor to give children speed.
Anyway, these days the main way I handle it is by not handling it, and guess what? I've accomplished quite a lot. I'll work for a bit, the go explore the street a mile up from house, come back, surf the net, work more, monologue the cat, make tea, work more. I'm a mental sprinter. In short bursts, I can produce a lot of good work, spread throughout the day. It's harder to maintain when I'm stuck at work for an eight hour shift, but while I'm in school, it's a great tactic.
One thing I will never do is what my psychologist recommended... excessive structure. Daily planners, adhering to a specific schedule, planning everything, never allowing room for randomness... this drives me insane. I feel like psychologists are trying to make people with ADHD conform to a world that was designed by people with the opposite mindset. They're trying to fit an abstract sculpture into a round hole. It's destined not to work. I've tried living a sedentary, hyperorganized life, and it's just made me fat, alcoholic and depressed.
In the long term, I think the most important thing is to pick a job with loose structure, varied tasks, and always something new going on. Medicine is one, or entrepreneurship, or journalism, or long-haul trucking, or embassy work. For me, what will help is to never be doing the same thing in the same place for very long.
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