A mix of 2 and 4 I guess. I do deal with things with fantasy and I can be passive-aggressive (especially with room mates..) but I am always trying to improve that. These days I usually succeed in dealing with things in a practical way like the methods shown in 4. But why give up fantasizing too?
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