this is our situation:15 year old boy, very intellegent but always kind of different, no friends at all, socialy very isolated,got through the elementary school somehow, struggling, ok grades, no problem with teachers but with kids yes, likes heroes (batman especialy), has his routines, eating habits, specific interests...ok we concluded ourselves it was asperger...lately some of the doctors and psychiatrics agreed. but...this spring. at the end of his hard period of schooling, while we were alredy planning a strategy for high school, he said he won´t go to school anymore, he will fight back all the "damn fools that bullied him", but he also felt hostile towards us (especialy me, his mom), he was depressed, only wanted to be in the house beeing affraid of the boys from school, then, agressive then selfagressive...it was awful and so sad. we talk to psychiatrist, gave us zyprexa, almost killed him (neuroleptic syndrome), got risperidon, as we see it didn´t help, made him hyper and talking at loud.one of the psychiatrists suggested "three weeks in psych.hospital, no visits to become independent and more responsible"?!
lately we found an ok high school (florists and gardeners), and a great classmaster, he started to go to school (flexible hours - great!). he is not very communicative (but has never been actualy), he is still in his world of heroes and soccer (can go on for hours...talking at loud but if you ask him something he answers back, no problem).he seems like a normal teenager except for this talking at loud, staying in bathtub for hour or so, even twice a day, or when he gets angry, he urinated in the garden (we saw him twice).and, it´s already cold but he still wear shorts and walks barefoot (but he´s never ill).some of his behevior is worrying us, can he be schizofrenic?i had personaly a great fear of that kind of possibility, but ok, i posted a few words...i feel i´m among good people.so, any thoughts?
love to all, mamamoo