Let's say someone wonders if they are autistic, or have social anxiety or ADD or are gay or asexual, etc. but they do not fear those things, they keep wondering and want answers so they obsess over it and keep reading about it and can't stop thinking about it. But they do not have anxiety over it and are not fearing if they are or not. What would this be called? OCPD? I would call this OCD but because there is no distress behind it and fear, OCD wouldn't fit even though there is the obsession and compulsions but no anxiety and fear. Also they enjoy reading this stuff to learn more but they still are not sure if they are or not but they can't stop wondering if they are or not and they want answers.
Also if someone is concerned about being gay and they are afraid if they are and it was because of the homophobia and the stigma about it so they are worried about what could happen to them if they were gay and people found out, would it be OCD or just anxiety?
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.