Gay aspies?!?!?!

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I really don`t get what you are saying. Anyway, what you `re saying you are just
isn`t right. I am going to pray for you. Love is for the opposite human genders.

Oh, is it? So am I not allowed to love my dog, then?

In most countries, no, that would get you arrested.

Hey, I was talking about platonic love. OMG, NOT ALL LOVE IS ABOUT SEX!!

I'm a bisexual aspie...

I was close to being gay one time when I was dressed like a boy, and all of the girls chased me around the school. I do act like a tomboy. I am very kind. I have a good intellect too.

That's a rather inappropriate comment. You're welcome to your own beliefs, but you should respect others' beliefs if you want your own respected. This is a board for understanding and support. Not everyone shares your viewpoint that what they are is wrong. Should someone feel the same way you do, they'll seek support for themselves through appropriate channels.

im pretty sure that being gay and being an aspie is hard because you get criticized for both. but im bi. that part has worked out for me except being an aspie which most people dont understand because it's not as common or understandable as someone who's psysically autistic.

I'm a gay aspie.

I came out of the closet 4 years ago which it was really no surprise I guess because I acted gay.

That makes sense. I think there'd be a heck of a lot more homo/bi/trans/asexual people without social conventions.



Well, aspies want equal rights too, and yet we have a separate forum...

I'm a bisexual aspie as well.. although apparently I come across to some people as lesbian and others as completely straight . Oh well.. I guess it depends if I am being open about it or avoiding the subject.

I'm bisexual. Also sorta genderqueer and might be transgendered, but I'm not sure about it.

I think being an aspie makes me feel kind of androgenous, since I'm not empathetic like girls are supposed to be. It would be cool to be an androgyne, but I'm not sure I am.

I'm pretty sure that I'm straight, but I'm not sure if I'm bisexual, I may be. I do know though, that I have sexual feelings (kind of) for boys (I'm a girl), and I haven't had any sexual feelings for girls.

Since when? Seriously, are you going to back that claim up with any factual evidence? By making this declaration you are saying either there is no such thing as love between people of the same sex, OR that they aren't supposed to love one another.

If you are saying the former, then I'll dismiss you immidately as you, nor I, are in any position to tell people that they are not in love. No more than a random person tell me that I love them. It just don't work like that. If they are in love... that's all there is to it (mind you, I don't believe in love the way most do anyway).

If the latter is your stand point (it's wrong or somthing) then I ask you: in a workd so rife with conflict and hatred, how can you be opposed to any for of love and affection?

Now I might be making erronious conclusions here but given you mentioned prayer, I'll assume you are religious... probably Abrahamic Judo Christian (I believe that's the term). This being Christian, Jewish, Islam and their cousins. Hence I'll extrappolate the your greivance is bible based. Probably the single section that read (paraphrased from memory) "A man shall not lie with another man as he would a woman or else they shall be burned like sticks". I'll also note that later it says "Help, me son is rebellious and disobediant. What do I do?"
"Get the towns people and throw rock at him untill his death."
Besides, the religious argument is only applicable to religous types. Instincts guide the species. Governments rule sociecties. Religion is for the self. Your beliefs are yours and are just as important to me as that guy in the street screaming his head is a giant ice-cream. You believe what you want, go you. I just don't think you have any right to tell others who they can love or invalidate their feelings.

Please be more considerate and keep your personal predujdice to yourself elsewise this will quickly evolve into a religous discussion and one that I have a avid stance on but at least I have enough respect for others not to immidatlely hassle them... unless they show themselves to be judgemental curs.

... turning off rant engine.

Hello from another queer Aspie. Not a teen, except perhaps at heart.

I don't tend to feel my sexuality is related to my AS. I just prefer women.

BTW, I love your handle, davywavy. I used to have an ex who hated the term "straight" because she said it implied that the rest of us were "crooked." I said, "Nope. I'm wavy."