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littlezip
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22 Oct 2011, 6:40 pm

hey,

so im a girl who's thinking she might be gay...i haven't told anyone. im interested in this girl i hang out with (im in college). i can't tell if she's gay or not. she's dropped a few hints that make me think she could be or maybe also is questioning.

any ideas on things i should try and talk to her about to try and ascertain if she is gay? i don't want to make it obvious that's what i'm doing, but I really want to know. i really like her.

thanks!

becca



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22 Oct 2011, 6:54 pm

littlezip wrote:
hey,

so im a girl who's thinking she might be gay...i haven't told anyone. im interested in this girl i hang out with (im in college). i can't tell if she's gay or not. she's dropped a few hints that make me think she could be or maybe also is questioning.

any ideas on things i should try and talk to her about to try and ascertain if she is gay? i don't want to make it obvious that's what i'm doing, but I really want to know. i really like her.

thanks!

becca


How close are you?



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22 Oct 2011, 7:06 pm

we've only known one another a few months...we go out with friends and hang out a fair bit, and we seem to have a lot in common. She's one of those people who really gets my Aspie personality.



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22 Oct 2011, 7:17 pm

littlezip wrote:
we've only known one another a few months...we go out with friends and hang out a fair bit, and we seem to have a lot in common. She's one of those people who really gets my Aspie personality.


I meant more like... Do you share secrets? Do you share personal problems?



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22 Oct 2011, 7:27 pm

yes i think so...I tell her more than i tell anyone (emotional issues, etc.) and she's shared some pretty personal stories with me, too.



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22 Oct 2011, 7:32 pm

littlezip wrote:
yes i think so...I tell her more than i tell anyone (emotional issues, etc.) and she's shared some pretty personal stories with me, too.


Try like a game of truths or something; make the questions steadily more personal so that you're openning up to each other and it's a little serious, then just ask if she's ever thought about doing anything with a girl. Worst case scenario she says no and just takes it as being a random question.