Klaatu wrote:
My official gender is male, and I know, how important it is to most people, to identify themselfes as a man or as a woman.
Sometimes I felt not only crash-landed on the wrong planet, but also stranded in the wrong body, because I can not understand the importance of this.
I want to dress as I like - unfortunately this has a terrible strong signal-effect to my social surrounding, so I stay better careful when going outside.
My sexual desires are exclusively attracted by women, but I dont feel as a hetero for that.
I like gays, they were more friendly to me than hetero "so-called grown men".
I hate homophoby (discrimination of lesbians and gays and transsexuals) it is like racism.
If this forum would have the choice (in our profile) I would choose neutral, but this is also not precise enough.
I kind of understand where you're coming from. I don't feel like gender is very important to who I am. How I define myself is separate from my body, for the most part. Some days I dress more feminine and some days I'm less feminine but I'm not trying one day to be a girl and another day to be a guy, this is just who I am. In addition I am a lesbian, but I feel like many people I meet are so interested in sex but I'm really mostly interested in love and the relationship part of things...sex is more just an expression of that. So perhaps we're both on the wrong planet, eh?
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